JohnDellano Posted November 15, 2015 Posted November 15, 2015 So I have been texting this girl who lives in other country for two months. She told me right when we began texting that she was coming to my City in November (this month) and then I told her I would love to take her out to dinner. At first she seemed really interested and Willing to go out with me, then for an unknown reason she began getting more and more distant, especially after we talked once on the phone. Then one day she told me she felt hesitant about meeting me since we live so far away and that wouldn't lead to anything meaningful.I still chased her a little (I used to text her only once a week after that) and then one day when I texted her and told her I was sick she said "if you were really sick you should be resting and not texting". I just realized she was definitely shutting me out so I froze her out and said Goodbye. 10 days later she texted me saying "FIY - I was Being sarcastic. Sorry if you were offended". I replied right away, saying that I wasnt offended, and that I had just stopped talking because she would always shut me out. Then when she asked me how I was I said "busy... I will be busy all weeks in November" and she said "Hey .. Lol I know what youre doing but I am not asking you out. I just wanted to know if you're okay, no need to shut me out" Later on she said she wouldnt try to make me interested in her again, and if she realized I wasnt interested anymore she would just stop talking. I told her things didnt need to have a defined end, that we could become only pen pals or maybe we could meet if she wanted to, but she if didnt want to meet, it would be fine as well. She said "I am not expecting anything" and then when I changed topic and asked her about her trip she said "well I gotta go now. Have a good night" Now... Do you think she is interested in going out with me, since she contacted me after the freeze out or is she just playing me???
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