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pcs13 Established Member

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To me those gestures mean something special but it seems like some men can do that with literially any girls they want. I once had a guy kiss on my forehead on the first date but he never wanted anything more than a hookup.

Men, if you can and often do that with girls you hook up with, what makes you do that? What is in your head when you do that?

xxoo Established Member

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Lust.

 

If he knows you, possibly affection, too.

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And what does it mean when a guy kisses your hands?

Marc878 Established Member

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A player knows and will do anything to get what they want.

 

I wouldn't make a good player. Honesty is the most important thing in my life.

 

If I kiss a woman's hands it's showing that there is deep love involved. Much more than just sex or really liking her.

 

Kiss on the forehead to me means hey you mean a lot to me.

xxoo Established Member

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And what does it mean when a guy kisses your hands?

 

He's a charmer.

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casey.lives Established Member

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yes. men and women both gaze into each others eyes and kiss on the forehead with someone they don't love or care for at all. it's called flirting

smackie9 Established Member

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It's the dance performed before sex.

LilaMarie Established Member

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I wished I would have known this before!!! Where were you loveshack???!!!Yes, I had a guy kiss my hands over and over and he didn't care if others saw...he turned out to be a cheater. The only time I fell for one :(

xxoo Established Member

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There are wonderfully skilled men in our world, blessed with the ability to make women swoon with heady lust. Thank god for them, or else life would lack flavor for sure.

 

It is our job to discern the pleasures of lust from the sincerity of love. Love is investment and care and consistency over time. It can include the passionate gazes and gentle kisses, or not. It's definitely more fun with them :bunny:

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Forehead kisses are the thing that make me swoon and also make me question his intentions. If from a sincere guy, nothin' better. If I sense he's a player, then I know full stop it's a player tactic.

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Opinions vary.

 

 

Forehead kisses are demeaning IMO. It's something asexual from fathers to daughters.

 

 

The rest of it -- hand kisses & lingering gazes are part of the seduction. However, seduction does not automatically equal love or fidelity. If those moves appear too practiced, watch out. You are being played by a master.

 

 

I have said it many times. I like players. They give great date! You will come away feeling like the most desirable woman in the world but it's an illusion. You cannot trust a player with your heart. If your heart follows your body, then you best stay away because you will get hurt when the player moves on to his next conquest.

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And what does it mean when a guy kisses your hands?

 

He wants a hj.

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basil67 Established Member

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Forehead kisses are demeaning IMO. It's something asexual from fathers to daughters.

 

I also see a forehead kiss as being nonsexual-paternal. Probably because my grandfather used to kiss my forehead.

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To me those gestures mean something special but it seems like some men can do that with literially any girls they want. I once had a guy kiss on my forehead on the first date but he never wanted anything more than a hookup.

Men, if you can and often do that with girls you hook up with, what makes you do that? What is in your head when you do that?

 

Those two things by themselves mean nothing. But when they gaze into your eyes and/or kiss your forehead after dating you for a while, keeping in good touch between dates and seeing you regularly and treating you with respect and not pushing you for sex . . . it usually means their feelings for you are getting deeper at least. They should be part of a bigger picture . . .

 

If they do that after only a couple of dates, they are just wooing you in hopes of having sex with you.

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Kisses on the head have that protective feel to me. It hits all those love-rush notes for me in the right context. I can see how it would be very seductive.

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MissBee Established Member

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To me those gestures mean something special but it seems like some men can do that with literially any girls they want. I once had a guy kiss on my forehead on the first date but he never wanted anything more than a hookup.

Men, if you can and often do that with girls you hook up with, what makes you do that? What is in your head when you do that?

 

Being in love is more than about a specific physical gesture or even specific words.

 

It is shown overtime. So don't read into any one look/touch/word as signs of being special. If you are special to a man (or anyone) they will consistently show you this over time again and again...you have to wait to see it as a consistent pattern and not a one off gesture or words every now and again.

 

In dating I've learned to look for consistency and not to read too much into anything. People don't always do things for the same reason you would so you can't always assume a particular action means the same thing to you as it does for someone else. Some men also know that certain gestures are meaningful and do it because they know it will illicit a certain response or feeling, even if it's not genuine on their part. So it all boils down to looking for consistency overtime.

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Unfortunately, there are people from both ends of the species (men & women) that can take any actions to seduce someone with no real care or devotion behind it.

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Unfortunately, there are people from both ends of the species (men & women) that can take any actions to seduce someone with no real care or devotion behind it.

 

This includes saying "will you marry me?", "yes", and "I do".

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pcs13 Established Member

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I can't deny being kissed on the forehead really makes me feel special though, but it depends on who is the one to give the kiss. I felt really weird when the guy I used to hook up with gave me a light kiss on my forehead after the first date, but it feels soooooo nice when the guy I'm dating with do the same, I feel protected and warm :)

 

And the linger gazes after sex, I could never do it with someone I don't care about so it's really hard for me to understand how some guys can do that, I mean literally spend minutes to stare deep into my eyes like they love me or something, and I often feel obligated to stare back but it feels too intimate for me I have to break it as soon as possible. Awkward!

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To me those gestures mean something special but it seems like some men can do that with literially any girls they want. I once had a guy kiss on my forehead on the first date but he never wanted anything more than a hookup.

Men, if you can and often do that with girls you hook up with, what makes you do that? What is in your head when you do that?

 

Bad eyesight/needs glasses?

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