BeeBumble Posted November 15, 2015 Posted November 15, 2015 Ok so I'd like some advice please. Saturday last week I went on a very spontaneous last minute date with a guy (he suggested it) we got on really well, shared a kiss and he even showed me his diary as he would be working away for a month on the following Wednesday. When I got home he text me to say he had a great evening and would really like to see me and suggested another date. We were due to go on the Tuesday but he cancelled as to had work and said it'll have to be when he was back - which I understood. So on Friday I just text him causally asking how he is and how work is. But he hasn't replied? I know he's got the message but now I'm wondering if he's interested? Should I just ask him - or leave it a few more days? We got on so well and he said he wanted to see me again so why know reply? (He's been on whatsapp a lot so I surely he's got time to just message me back?
Redfisher Posted November 15, 2015 Posted November 15, 2015 Pretty weak effort on his part, He could be dating others at the same time... Give him a little more time to reply and move on. 1
LilaMarie Posted November 15, 2015 Posted November 15, 2015 we got on really well, shared a kiss and he even showed me his diary as he would be working away for a month on the following Wednesday. I know he's got the message but now I'm wondering if he's interested? Should I just ask him - or leave it a few more days? We got on so well and he said he wanted to see me again so why know reply? (He's been on whatsapp a lot so I surely he's got time to just message me back? This is why I believe it is best to date multiple men. I could only date two at a time max and it doesn't mean I'm sleeping with them. It is so you don't get so emotionally invested in one guy. I would not even date a guy that is not available for a month. I guess I just know my self worth and what I have to offer. Girl, you already know the answer....he's just not into you. Move on. 2
smackie9 Posted November 15, 2015 Posted November 15, 2015 A guy that is truly interested would have made time to see you/contact you. Men who don't text/call, is because they don't want to. It's a no brainer that to message someone takes only a few seconds to do. So don't invest in him any further. Tip: date those who treat you the way you want to be treated, and that includes their efforts during the time you are not together.
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