Married, haven't cheated, but continuous lustful thoughts for another man

[stillafool]

. He doesn't please me, and honestly I could count the number of times I've felt true, unadulterated passion sexually for him. Sad but true.

 

Also, he thinks I should loose weight. He's been telling me this since the day we met. ????? I have never felt attractive to him. This has been an issue in our marriage.

 

The above sounds like an awful way to live. Yet you say this:

 

But this time i don't want to leave.

 

We have no children.

 

Tell me I'm crazy.

 

Yes I think you are crazy to stay in a marriage where neither of you seem attracted to the other. There are no children involved so why do you put yourself through this. Cheating is not the answer. Divorce and be with a man who wants you for you and can provide a satisfying sex life.