Ventingsession Posted November 14, 2015 Posted November 14, 2015 Me and this girl was together for 2 years. We got into a argument last week because I simply asked her "why was she giving out her number to guys". She lashed out on me and started bringing up everything in my past. I grabbed her and hugged when we was arguing to just try and get along and fix things. Instead she text me with "I don't this relationship is going to work" and broke up with me. Very next day she's always hanging out with a new guy. Showing him off on snapchat, Instagram, and Twitter. (Later she blocked me on all of them) It bother me but I never spoke on it. I just said to myself "oh okay I see what you wanted" and I went a week without contacting her. For some reason she checks my Twitter page and daily and ask my friend if I'm okay. So last night she texted me out the blue from a random number saying "Idk why you hurt me, but I've accept and forgive you but I have to move on I will continue to pray for you". Then that morning she wrote me again on Twitter saying "good luck on your interview today. I know you'll do good( she blocked me on social media but she still knows what I'm doing)". I simply replied "thanks" she replied and I didn't reply. Then she sent another saying " I'll always miss you BB, I'll keep praying for you. Give Jasper a hug for me" I replied "you got it" then she replied back to back and I didn't reply. But she still talking to the dude she left me for. I'm confused??? I want to fix things but she's with this new guy and I backed away. Is it right that I go complete No Contact. I just don't get why she checks on me thru social media when she's with this new guy. I'm just confused.
didithappen Posted November 14, 2015 Posted November 14, 2015 I will continue to pray for you? What the hell haha. It seems like she's trying to shift the blame on you and make herself feel better for getting another guy. Honestly you should just not respond to anything she does. She blocks you and yet still contacts you? Just ignore her. Go no contact. Accept that she might not come back and move forward with the mindset that you aren't going to get her back. If she does reach out, which it seems like she might, than think long and hard if you want someone like that back.
geronimo Posted November 14, 2015 Posted November 14, 2015 Holy sh*t your ex sounds exactly like mine. no joke, leave that trash in the past and run far away from it. She used to do the same thing with giving out numbers to guys and when i confronted her about it, she would either turn it around on me or just play it off like they're friends/her friends were having a competition, etc. All of these things mean she has checked out of the relationship and is looking for something else while she is with you so that she doesn't have to be alone. It took me a year to learn that and let it sink in. You don't need a person like that in your life, and as much as you're hurt, you will get over it and realize how sh*tty she treated you. I had put my ex on a pedestal for a REALLY LONG time and part of that was because we were eachothers firsts, we were young and we were together for 5 years. But you live and you learn. I now know that no matter how many sweet things she said, her intentions were never pure, it was all sugar coated bs. My ex seems like a great person, and she was, but her problem was she was very very needy and for whatever reason she lost feelings for me and didn't have the guts to breakup and move on like a normal person instead she just started doing things like this to slowly pull away. It hurts alot to realize that a person who you love and care about deeply doesn't feel the same way but it just means that you two aren't compatible and thats just how life goes sometimes.
CarrieT Posted November 14, 2015 Posted November 14, 2015 Just block her on all the social media sites. Time to go full No Contact.
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