Helley1993 Posted November 13, 2015 Posted November 13, 2015 I met a guy one day whom I though was really nice. He took me on dates, offered me to come to his house, made dinner everytime, kissed and cuddled me, let me to sleep at his home and etc. He was also very intelligent , he knew a lot about history and life in general so I used to listen to his beautiful voice every night. But there was one problem, he had really high sex drive, plus he called me idiot a lot which wasn't seemed really nice and it was kind of weird. He was humping me every minute and hiting my butt every time. I lost my virginity to him and it was really painful and bloody, I told him that but he said that its fine and he doesn't care cause its normal. But the pain won't go away and the few days later he wanted sex more and it was really painful again because he was really rough with me. He started being even more rough with me and started verbally abusing me. One day, I was cleaning the house and I forgot to clean one little spot on the floor and he started calling me dumb and difficult for always making things not right. I know he was clean freak but still. He started criticizing me a lot, how I make things, how I look. He knew that I didn't have high self esteem and I was kind of shy and he knew how to use that. One day I got ill at his house, I had high fever and sore throat and he was pressuring me to have sex, I said to him that I am sick but he said that I am just making excuses not to have sex again and I should stop being a child. He hit my leg when I finally told him that I need more time to feel comfortable again and he told me to get out of his house because he is bored with me. He called me little dumb b*tch and kicked me out. And before I left he said that I need to delete his number so I won't be able to call him anymore. I was waiting for a train to home with 100.4 fever freezing outside and few days later I got a bad flu. So was I really stupid and he couldnt handle me or it was him?
Confusioncreepsin Posted November 13, 2015 Posted November 13, 2015 To be a straight forward as possible...he was a douchebag. Be glad to be FAR FAR away from that. Do not ever accept that behavior from anyone, you are worth far more to yourself and to everyone else. GET AWAY FROM THIS IDIOT AND STAY AWAY>>>>> 1
Silver_star Posted November 13, 2015 Posted November 13, 2015 Run, don't walk in the other direction girl! No one deserves to be treated this way
LostOnes05 Posted November 14, 2015 Posted November 14, 2015 This kind of behavior pisses me off. You deserve a man who treats you with love and respect. None of what you just described sounds like that. He is an abuser or at least a budding one. Heal yourself mentally and physically. Please don't go back to this guy. He will probably try to get you back and be sweet for a little while and then be back to his old ways of demeaning you. Remember that you deserve the very best ALWAYS.
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