Marshbear Posted May 26, 2005 Posted May 26, 2005 Originally posted by SixthSt.Girl I like the guy to be direct and just TELL ME what he wants. Flirting is cute for awhile, but if he doesn't make a move, I assume he's just a tease or can't figure out what he wants. That's a WOMAN's role, not a man's! Men are supposedly more straightforward and direct than women, so that's how I feel they should be. I learned in one of my communications classes that there are three types of flirting: cute, innocuous, and I forget the third but it's along the lines of "direct." I like direct, and see the rest as high school boy stuff. I'm 9 times out of 10 not going to sit around thinking "Does he like me? Does he want to be just friends?" I just ignore or barely tolerate the flirting at that point. I'm a few weeks out of a long-term relationship and don't have the energy to decode flirting and play around. If I do like the guy and think something could come out of it, I occasionally will approach and ask what the heck is going on (not with those exact words, lol). But, I'm not making a habit of that when there are plenty of fish in the sea who will have the balls to make a move. Amen!! Sister.. The direct approach is the best . Just tell it like it is. No need to waste time trying to figure out if they like you. peace...
ReluctantRomeo Posted May 27, 2005 Posted May 27, 2005 Originally posted by SixthSt.Girl I'm guessing you don't have much experience, then, reluctant. Women don't like little boys' games... It's like a ferris wheel - the first few times are nice, but going around in circles gets old quick. Actually, I have a lot of experience dating. And in meeting/interacting with women in general. But very little of it with Americans... maybe things work different over here?
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