miranda_wilson Posted November 13, 2015 Posted November 13, 2015 First of all, I know some will say "Ask HIM if you want to know!" -- but the point is...I don't wanna ask him, I wanna ask y'all So last night I and the guy I've been seeing for 3.5 months (and who's really good to me) and I were in bed and I asked (pillow-talk, mind you) if he'd been referring to me as his girlfriend to people. He said "wasn't sure if that was okay because I've never heard you refer to me as your boyfriend." I told him that yeah, i generally didn't refer to him as my boyfriend, that usually I said 'the guy I'm seeing' but that a few times I had referred to him as my boyfriend. He said he was pretty much in the same place with regard to references to me. Then he said that there'd been some times when OTHER people referred to me as his girlfriend (like his parents) and he'd pretty much not disputed it. A little later he said, "It's okay if you call me your boyfriend. I'm fine with that. It has a nice ring." But he didn't then say he considers me his girlfriend. I know it may be a silly question...does he consider me his girlfriend? But...when I was younger I was seeing a guy who liked the idea of me claiming him as a boyfriend but didn't necessarily want to claim me as a girlfriend. Anyway, do you think this person PROBABLY sees me as his girlfriend and was/is just being cautious with words...mirroring me?
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