Jesse101 Posted November 12, 2015 Posted November 12, 2015 I'm really into this girl and we have been texting a lot lately. I told her how I felt about her and she said she would like to get to know me more and that I intrigue her. Everything goes well, we talk a lot and talk about plans to meet up one on one. I just find it frusterating that I always text her first. I get a response with in the first 3 minutes after but I don't if I should wait for her to start a convo. Or Should I just keep hitting her up first. The conversation haven't dulled over time so I don't think it's out of bordom but I'm not sure. Any thoughts?
Iceshowers Posted November 12, 2015 Posted November 12, 2015 I LOVE when a guy texts first and actually continues with the text. BUT, too much too soon can get boring for both parties. You will suck the enjoyment out of dates if you have said it all via text. Text her enough that you show her you're interested, but don't text her all the time. Go hours before replying to her text. Change it up a little. Maybe not text her one day, and she'll text you first if she's interested. Again, I love when a guy texts first, but you can't seem too overly excited and clingy, because that can turn her off (it would for me, I had one guy bug me constantly via text). 1
Author Jesse101 Posted November 12, 2015 Author Posted November 12, 2015 I LOVE when a guy texts first and actually continues with the text. BUT, too much too soon can get boring for both parties. You will suck the enjoyment out of dates if you have said it all via text. Text her enough that you show her you're interested, but don't text her all the time. Go hours before replying to her text. Change it up a little. Maybe not text her one day, and she'll text you first if she's interested. Again, I love when a guy texts first, but you can't seem too overly excited and clingy, because that can turn her off (it would for me, I had one guy bug me constantly via text). Hey thanks for the reply... That's that's the thing.. I don't want to turn her off by texting to much.
thecrucible Posted November 12, 2015 Posted November 12, 2015 I would continue with the flow of what you are doing and wait until you meet up. Maybe you can spice things up a bit by not always texting at the same time and being a bit busy?
thecrucible Posted November 13, 2015 Posted November 13, 2015 you kids and your text games... Well the busy thing I thought makes sense, because then you actually have something to talk about when you do text. I hate texting - I'm not cut out for the modern world :/.
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