Merin Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 Just curious after the thread Alpha started on Certain Types being attracted to you.. What type are YOU attracted to and Why? What makes someone appealing to you? I tend to be attracted to Guys who are GUYS not so much the metro-sexualish Guy but for some reason or another that seems to be the type that I attract When I think about it.. in the past few years I've dated a Marine, A guy in the AF, A Stripper, A Firefighter, Was married to a Cop.. and my last BF is a Mechanic.. Hmm... What does this say about what I find appealing.. Maybe that I like the idea of a Strong Male?
whichwayisup Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 I'm attracted to the badboys sexually. My mind isn't. Honestly since I know that kind of man is flighty and isn't long term material. (Not saying ALL badboys, but the majority of them.) My husband is everything wrapped up into one - Except he's abit too serious at times. Mostly what attracted me to him is his big heart.
Moose Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 What type are YOU attracted to and Why?Petite and light weight. Easier to move her around the bed in various positions.What makes someone appealing to you?Brains, Beauty, a sincere heart. I'm so friggggggin' lucky to have Mrs. Moose. I admit that I don't deserve the woman!
Marshbear Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 Originally posted by Merin What type are YOU attracted to and Why? I am attracted to a smart, feminine women with class and style. If we click on the conversation then I am good to go. I like someone who is funny, serious at times, playful, artistic, romantic and just damn sexy ( with the bootie to match ).
l2hvn Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 i like a manly man but isn't afraid to show his softer side.
Author Merin Posted May 25, 2005 Author Posted May 25, 2005 Originally posted by NTB right now i want a freak in the bedroom NTB You're killing me today! You NEED to get you some!
NTB Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 Originally posted by Merin NTB You're killing me today! You NEED to get you some! i'm telling you i am dying over here.......this weekend i am getting some even if it kills me
Author Merin Posted May 25, 2005 Author Posted May 25, 2005 Originally posted by NTB i'm telling you i am dying over here.......this weekend i am getting some even if it kills me Beeeeeeee Caaarrreeeffffuuullll! AND Get you sooommmeeeeee!!!
blind_otter Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 I like men who: Are confident in themselves Will spoil me Are financially stable Are "manly men" who can fix things and put things together Are dominant in the bedroom Make me feel special and treat me like a queen
Author Merin Posted May 25, 2005 Author Posted May 25, 2005 Originally posted by blind_otter I like men who: Are confident in themselves Are "manly men" who can fix things and put things together Are dominant in the bedroom I like Guys who can fix things too!
Illusion24 Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 Hmm... What does this say about what I find appealing.. That you like guys with strong hands...
Author Merin Posted May 25, 2005 Author Posted May 25, 2005 Originally posted by NeverSayNever That you like guys with strong hands... LOL I think you're on to something...
alphamale Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 i'm all about the feminine women who like to dress nice and wear heels and makeup. they are of avg intelligence and sexy and usually work as admin assistants or something similar. and she must have nice legs and feet otherwise no deal and personality, I like light hearted women who like to laugh and are not too serious. a woman who is somewhere in between the high-powered corporate type and the dumb blonde bimbo type.
blind_otter Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 Originally posted by Merin I like Guys who can fix things too! Fer real, tho. Something about a man lifting heavy objects or making something broken work makes me all hot and shyte. (where is the panting emoticon when you need it??)
Author Merin Posted May 25, 2005 Author Posted May 25, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale i'm all about the feminine women who like to dress nice and wear heels and makeup. they are of avg intelligence and sexy and usually work as admin assistants or something similar. and she must have nice legs and feet otherwise no deal and personality, I like light hearted women who like to laugh and are not too serious. a woman who is somewhere in between the high-powered corporate type and the dumb blonde bimbo type. So no Tomboys for you uh?
Author Merin Posted May 25, 2005 Author Posted May 25, 2005 Originally posted by blind_otter Fer real, tho. Something about a man lifting heavy objects or making something broken work makes me all hot and shyte. (where is the panting emoticon when you need it??) I know what you're sayin! LOL I loved watching My EXBF (The Marine) work on his vintage car.. LOL AND My last BF worked on his Motorcycle, moved all my stuff into my new house... LOL My God why is this soooo hot?!
alphamale Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 Originally posted by Merin ... LOL My God why is this soooo hot?! it is HOT because women generally don't do it and its a very masculine thing. Especially lifting the heavy objects, most women can't do it. An old g/f had bought like this 27" new TV set and left it in her car. It weighted like 150lbs in the box and I had to carry it up barehanded to her 3rd floor apt. She f***ed me good that nite!
Illusion24 Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 I Pretty boys...But not to much where they take longer than me to get ready...same amount of time or less. I tend to get a guy when he's broke and I have to pay for everything...so I can say I'm attracted to broke men HUMM what else...Oh man he has to have a beautiful smile and lips...yummy
crazy_grl Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 - confident - intelligent - keeps his word - funny and gets my sense of humor - not materialistic (I'd chose a guy with an 95 Accord over one with a Porshe he probably can't afford any day.) - looks hot and has a great smile - good in bed - knows how to share his feelings (Because if he doesn't, I probably won't. I've never been good at the talking about feelings thing.) - is not threatened by non-standard gender roles (as in: the man pursues and protects the woman and she's the prey who nutures him) When a man is not secure enough in his masculinity to be threatened by something so simple as me being the one to drive or buy dinner, it's an immediate turn off as it shows he's insecure and not willing to have an equal relationship.
Illusion24 Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 Originally posted by crazy_grl - confident - intelligent - keeps his word - funny and gets my sense of humor - not materialistic (I'd chose a guy with an 95 Accord over one with a Porshe he probably can't afford any day.) - looks hot and has a great smile - good in bed - knows how to share his feelings (Because if he doesn't, I probably won't. I've never been good at the talking about feelings thing.) - is not threatened by non-standard gender roles (as in: the man pursues and protects the woman and she's the prey who nutures him) When a man is not secure enough in his masculinity to be threatened by something so simple as me being the one to drive or buy dinner, it's an immediate turn off as it shows he's insecure and not willing to have an equal relationship. I can't really think today about men...but what she said ^
Stone Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 I am attracted to men that are atleast 10 years older than me, I don't know why maby a maturity thing. I don't find men my age ( early 20's) attractive at all
blind_otter Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 Otter likes being pampered and taken care of. I force male friends to drive if we go out, and they drive me even if we take my car. I don't buy dinner or anything, either. I do that for friends but if I'm being courted, I must be taken out. Bizarrely traditional. You gotta pay for this p*ssy.
browneyes22 Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 I'm physically attracted to all different types of women. Big a$$, small$$. Big chest, small chest. Short hair, long hair. Short, tall. Any ethnicity, any religion, etc. A girl who knows how to dress, and takes care of her body (ie is athletic, or excersizes regularly) is a plus but not necessary for me. These habbits can be learned if they are willing to change for the better (another plus). A must for me is someone with a great personality, who is also charming, kind, and caring. They have to carry themselve well. Education doesn't matter as long as you want to do something with yourself. But, I do prefer women that put family first...not career. For dating purposes it's a hassle 'cause you have to work around their busy schedule which is annoying. And if you both want to marry one another it would be difficult to convince her to be a stay at home mom whom raises our children...not a nanny.
johan Posted May 26, 2005 Posted May 26, 2005 I'm attracted to women with nice eyes, upper middle-class style, clean, non-smoker, athletic, brave, non-princess, not into money at all but are responsible, who do most of the talking on the phone, smart (educated doesn't matter as much), hot (in my eyes), emotionally smart. I respect the type of woman who won't flirt with other guys when she's with someone. Usually I dig brunettes when I'm with a blonde, and blondes when I'm with a brunette. Redheads are ok, but I worry about sunburn. Exotic is ok, but too ethnic kind of gets in the way. I like legs and ass. Breasts are a nice bonus, but I don't really care as long as they aren't absent. And they shouldn't be so big she can't run comfortably. I want a girl who can run with me occasionally.
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