will she come back?

[imtheone]

me and ex agreed to be friends, i have been constantly texting her about some money she owes to no avail(i know, huge mistake, wish i could turn back time and played it differently) just wandering do you think she will come back to me if i completely go NC with her? i havent been nasty to her, last thing i said was "i promise i wont contact you anymore, you can contact me if you want to friends again, sorry if i messed you around, take care" so do i just go no contact and see if she comes back and during this period just work on myself so im in a better frame of mind? im not expecting her to come back, but what are the chances? im finally accepting this could be the end, and i prob wont here from her, and im not feeling much pain today as i know ive tried my best with her so i dont have no regrets, just want to know my chances. by the way she has some other guy on the scene, think i pushed her into his arms, im still confused cause 2 weeks ago she says she wants to work things out, and only last week we were making arrangements to hang out, have i blown it completely by bombarding her with texts? ive posted on here a few times, sorry to keep going over the same thing, i just have many unanswered questions in my head even if im feeling better now, thanks in advance

[d0nnivain]

Asking the same question, gets you the same answer. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/556940-can-you-sum-up-my-behaviour

[imtheone]

im sorry to be a pain, just confused

[qubist]

It is sad and funny that you know the answer. You even said it yourself.

NC is not just the right way, in your case is a must.

[PegNosePete]

As I said in your previous thread I think you've well and truly blown it now, and it's extremely unlikely she will come back to you, no matter what you do.

 

Best to go NC now. Not to get her back, but for you to recover.

[Armageddon]

I wish I'm in your position honestly, but NC is too late for me now. Just cut off all contact from her and do the greatest disappearing act. In short, just disappear from her life completely and it's very likely she will come back to you. It's still not too late for you buddy.

[Amelie1980]

Possibly.

 

Either you piss them off totally and utterly and they never want to talk to you again. Or when you suddenly ghost them after being a pain in the a$$ they notice and think wait even they dont want me.....but i wouldn't count on it.

[lolablue17]

How much money does she owe you?

[imtheone]

Not a huge amount £100, She is filthy rich so it's not she hasn't got the money to give back, it just seems to me she's using that as an excuse to get in contact in the future, and I think I pissed her off because I said can she transfer me back the money and we will cut all ties, that's when she started to ignore, and I got angry with her saying she's disrespectful for ignoring when I asked politely for her to transfer it back, I know it's a small amount, but I work hard for the money I have, unlike her, who calls daddy up to put 20k into her account when needed

[lolablue17]

I advice you to forget about her. Why would you want to be friends with a girl who disrespect you that much? About the money? Well, when I owe money to people, I never forget that and always try to give it back to them as soon as i have the chance. Seems she doesn't give $hit about you, ignoring the money she owes you...

[imtheone]

Thanks for the advice, that is why I wanted the money back, so she didn't have a reason to worm her way back into my life, it's not a huge amount so not like I can't live without it, thanks again