Jay13094 Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 I knew him for 4 months and tried to pursue him for about the same amount but not so much invested any time, just have been interested for that long. he also knows I like him. I eventually gave up but he happened to reach out the week i decided to let it go. It went really well Our first date was a kiss and I did not want to sleep with him so soon but it happened 2 weeks later. He told me he wasn't ready or want a relationship at the moment but for me to not see it as he just wants to sleep with me (conversation happened before I slept with him). I did not ask if he liked me bc I assumed he was testing waters and well it's obvious he does. We're in our early 20s so I know it's hard to take me or the situation too seriously. But when we work together he gives me so much attention and so flirty and last time we worked together he kissed me and takes like small things like a simple hug as a big deal. Everyone knows we're talking but he does not make the effort to see me outside of work.We texted the following week after the date and basically last week is when I ended up sleeping with him. he did not follow up or send me a text at all. Of course I felt a type of way but i saw him at work 2 days later and he was even more loving towards me and just seems like he really really likes me. He texted me when I left asking for me to get back safe and I thought it was ok again. I texted him yesterday about work but mainly did so I could ask him to hang but he stopped responding. He is very unresponsive to me or he will be really responsive and it's so frustrating because I just don't know how to act around him. If he wants to be friends like fine I'll get over it but his hot n cold behavior is driving me up a wall. Every time I tell myself I'm moving on, I see him at work and everything's always great. If anything, it's been getting better but I just feel like I'm wasting my time now. I never asked in detail but his first and last relationship was 3-4 years and I believe it ended a year and a half ago.
Ic1 Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 I see many red flags here! If your work is professional at all, I'd bring this up to a supervisor after asking him to stop it. Be a friend outside of work as well, or stop pulling those cards at work.
Glitters Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 I would be concerned as people in work know about you guys and the fact that nothing much is happening beyond that. It could lead to trouble down the road. Its not a good idea to go around with someone from work
Author Jay13094 Posted November 11, 2015 Author Posted November 11, 2015 I see many red flags here! If your work is professional at all, I'd bring this up to a supervisor after asking him to stop it. Be a friend outside of work as well, or stop pulling those cards at work. its not a serious job, I'm just a hostess at a restaurant- its like a bar scene so its not a big deal. he's part time too.
Author Jay13094 Posted November 11, 2015 Author Posted November 11, 2015 I would be concerned as people in work know about you guys and the fact that nothing much is happening beyond that. It could lead to trouble down the road. Its not a good idea to go around with someone from work its not a serious job, I'm just a hostess at a restaurant- its like a bar scene so its not a big deal. he's part time too. A lot of my coworkers date each other, or have met from working there so its not like a big deal.
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