melissak Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 I am 41 year-old asian woman... I went out with a white man for 2 years... during these two years, he kept telling he loved me and he kept saying: oh, honey, if we get married..blablabla... but when i got pregnant, he told me we could not have it... he told me: oh, honey, don't you think it is nice that after i propose to you and then we try to have a baby?... so i trusted every words he told me and I did the abortion at my age (I don't have any kids and I never marred before)... 3 weeks ago, my father was having a heart-attack... I was so vulnerable and at the same day, after i came home from hospital, I wanted his comfort so much... so I went to his place (I wanted to let him know before I went, but he turned his cell off) and ...I caught him with other woman... and he told me: you are not my girl friend any more...and he even denied that I had an abortion for him... I feel that I am like a used toilet paper to him...
New_Wife Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 I am sorry for your losses. Just because this man is a s***, you are not toilet paper. Sadly, some folks are just liars and don't seem to care who they hurt. You will heal. It may not happen fast, but you will heal.
moon Posted May 27, 2005 Posted May 27, 2005 Just be glad you didn't have a baby with that jerk. If you had you'd be tied to him forever. Would you want that? Seriously, if you're so into having a baby alone go to a sperm bank or adopt. I'd rather have a fatherless baby than a baby with a father who is a lying, loser, womanizer. Seriously, you'll be so pleased that that guy got rid of you when the shock and pain wears off. You'll be thanking your lucky stars. Look at it as a blessing.
Candy Cane Posted May 27, 2005 Posted May 27, 2005 That is really horrible what he did to you. You did not deserve to be treated that way and don't let him make you feel badly about yourself. He is the one who will suffer in the end. What goes around comes around. Take really good care of yourself during this time and know that people care about you. I do!! Everything will be okay. Just give yourself a little time to heal.
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