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I see this said a lot on these boards.

 

If you use this phrase; what do you mean by it?

 

I know how I see it, but I'm interested in what others mean by it.

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I see this said a lot on these boards.

 

If you use this phrase; what do you mean by it?

 

I know how I see it, but I'm interested in what others mean by it.

 

To me, it means our connection is based on something much deeper that goes way beyond the superficial (i.e. looks, job, financial .... even compatibility).

 

A guy could be my total physical type, we may be extremely compatible ....but that still does not guarantee we will connect on a deeper level which is essentially our two energies coming together resulting in our BOTH feeling and *knowing* this is right.

 

Most people who have experienced this cannot even describe what it was exactly that attracted them....they just *knew*. Fairly quickly in fact, often times immediate.

 

This is exactly what happened to me and my fiance. First night we met.

 

It's very powerful and those who balk at this have obviously never experienced, but I am here to say that type of connection is VERY real!

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To me, it means our connection is based on something much deeper that goes way beyond the superficial (i.e. looks, job, financial .... even compatibility).

 

A guy could be my total physical type, we may be extremely compatible ....but that still does not guarantee we will connect on a deeper level which is essentially our two energies coming together resulting in our BOTH feeling and *knowing* this is right.

 

Most people who have experienced this cannot even describe what it was exactly that attracted them....they just *knew*. Fairly quickly in fact, often times immediate.

 

This is exactly what happened to me and my fiance. First night we met.

 

It's very powerful and those who balk at this have obviously never experienced, but I am here to say that type of connection is VERY real!

 

Great reply :)

 

My mum has said the same thing to me, that when I meet her I'll just know.

 

I've not experienced that with any of my previous relationships.

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Interesting. I always thought it meant "we share the same religion and explore it together". I'm an atheist, so that's something that's impossible for me. Perhaps I've been misinterpreting that all this time?

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To me, it means our connection is based on something much deeper that goes way beyond the superficial (i.e. looks, job, financial .... even compatibility).

 

A guy could be my total physical type, we may be extremely compatible ....but that still does not guarantee we will connect on a deeper level which is essentially our two energies coming together resulting in our BOTH feeling and *knowing* this is right.

 

Most people who have experienced this cannot even describe what it was exactly that attracted them....they just *knew*. Fairly quickly in fact, often times immediate.

 

This is exactly what happened to me and my fiance. First night we met.

 

It's very powerful and those who balk at this have obviously never experienced, but I am here to say that type of connection is VERY real!

 

Agreed. I've experienced this before and it's one of those things where words often fail to express what it really feel like. And once you've experienced it, you will never again settle for anything less :)

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