ErinSeMa Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 If i turned off and browse anonymously, does the person know I visited their profile (Alist). I know it won't show who, but will it show someone anonymous have visited your profile or nothing? Went on a fantastic date 2 days ago, but no text. Just wanted to see his profile to see if he is still looking.
J21 Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 It won't show anything. Not even an anonymous. It will still show when you are online/last online.
angel.eyes Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 Is your goal to date someone more than once? Then stalking his profile anonymously is not just counterproductive to your dating agenda, but also tells you zilch. Here are two options that might get you closer to what you want: Reach out and tell him you had a great time. Let him know you are interested in seeing him again. No hints. Be direct.Assume he isn't interested, browse other profiles and arrange dates with other guys. It was, after all, just one date. 1
PegNosePete Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 Erin, I would very much recommend you engage in mature, 2-way communication rather than passive-aggressive stalking of profiles and worrying about whether he can see that you're looking at his profile or not. Good luck!
phineas Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 Is your goal to date someone more than once? Then stalking his profile anonymously is not just counterproductive to your dating agenda, but also tells you zilch. Here are two options that might get you closer to what you want: Reach out and tell him you had a great time. Let him know you are interested in seeing him again. No hints. Be direct.Assume he isn't interested, browse other profiles and arrange dates with other guys. It was, after all, just one date. This. I can tell you this, if I take a woman out and buy her a few drinks and she doesn't thank me with a text after I won't contact her again. 1
Ic1 Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 If he's been ok OKC in the past two days, that doesn't mean he's no longer interested. He just has multiple options, and is considering all. But his lack of response... Send him one message asking if he'd like to go on another date. No response, he ghosted you and don't send another message. Good you didn't waste more time on him.
LoveRefreshed Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 Also after a single one date on okc, you better assume he is still looking and keeping his options open. No guy assumes he won a girl after a single date. I assume that any girl I am attracted to has more guys interested in her than she is aware of.
oberkeat Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 Also after a single one date on okc, you better assume he is still looking and keeping his options open. No guy assumes he won a girl after a single date. I assume that any girl I am attracted to has more guys interested in her than she is aware of. This is what sucks about online dating. Nobody's serious about finding a relationship. Everyone's just window shopping.
katiegrl Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 (edited) If i turned off and browse anonymously, does the person know I visited their profile (Alist). I know it won't show who, but will it show someone anonymous have visited your profile or nothing? Went on a fantastic date 2 days ago, but no text. Just wanted to see his profile to see if he is still looking. He hasn't texted at all after the date? When I was dating, most guys (if they were interested) texted me soon after the date to tell me what a great time they had... and to set up another one. Have you texted him? Just to say you enjoyed meeting him and had a good time? My guess is ... he is probably not interested in pursuing anything with you (otherwise you would have heard something from him by now), but texting him just to say hi might be worth a shot... Edited November 11, 2015 by katiegrl
introverted1 Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 This. I can tell you this, if I take a woman out and buy her a few drinks and she doesn't thank me with a text after I won't contact her again. I always follow up after a first date, even if the guy wasn't the one to pay. And if he was, a thank you is absolutely in order! 1
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