Orije Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 (edited) Hello Loveshack, I hope everyone is doing wonderful today. I came on today because I have a question about a situation i put myself through tonight and I would like to know your responses about it. I am currently going to college and so is my girlfriend. We have been in a relationship for 7 months almost 8. The situation started because i lied to my girlfriend which i thought was a small thing, but now i realize it was incredibly stupid and i hate myself for it. I have never lied to anyone before and it hurts a lot. Tomorrow i have a lot of assignments due for class. I have 2 tests, and group essay due and a project presentation. To add on top of it, one of my partners for the group essay hasn't been in contact and I have to do his part incase he doesn't get back to me. I got out of work and home by 4pm and I was supposed to attend a class at 6pm. My girlfriend is also sleeping over tomorrow so my mother told me i will have to clean up the bathroom and another part of the house before she comes over which will take more than an hour. My girlfriend has expressed to me before that she wouldn't like if i missed a class because she wouldn't and i might miss something important. Tonight i thought i can tell her i was going to class when i wasn't so i can take the extra 1 hour and a half to do this work. It was about 7pm and I had fallen asleep since i woke up at 6am to go to work and she called me about 8 to see what was going on. When she asked I immediatelly told her what was going. She is upset and said Im stupid for what i did because i lied and i skipped class but fell asleep when i was supposed to be doing work. I texted her and i apologized dearly and i told her i love her. She hasn't responded back to my messages cause it showed that she read them, but i see that she is active on social media due to her liking her guy friends old photos and i tried calling. Do you think she will forgive me? Would you be just as mad if something like this happened and what can i do to make everything better? Thank you ver much everyone Edited November 11, 2015 by Orije
Author Orije Posted November 11, 2015 Author Posted November 11, 2015 She finally texted back and said she was studying and i should go finish my work. I hope things can become better and how they were before
DrReplyInRhymes Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 Honestly, who cares. I don't think it's that big of a deal. Except if you show up at her work per her request, find out from her parents that she told them she was with you, definitely awkward, and no one really knew where she was because she lied to everyone. If it happened like that, then you have problems. Women like to cause drama though. If you're in the doghouse, apologize, and hope for the best. Sounds like young love, and at that age, I never really cared what anyone thought. I was just about living life. I think you should try that too.
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