Mark1 Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 I'll try to keep this short. I am a waiter at a restaurant and last week I got a table of 6 very attractive women in their early 40s, all married. They were some of the raunchiest, dirtiest women I've never met. It was one of their birthdays, and gifts included dildos, porn playing cards etc. Conversation included jokes about anal sex, fisting etc. I went along with everything and they loved me. They got really drunk and took pictures of me. One of them kissed me on the lips. They all told me their husbands are very understanding of the time they need together. Afterwards they invited me to a wine bar next door, which was relaxing and fun. They added me on Facebook and said we should hang out again. One of them said she "might have some tricks up her sleeve" for me, but nothing ever really came of it. I got her number but I never heard back from her. Should I have made a move that night with one of them? If so, how would I have done it? (I didn't buy anything for them, they left a huge tip).
CarrieT Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 No. They were just flirting and having fun - nothing was going to come of it... 6
losangelena Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 Did you mess up by not hooking up with a married woman? The answer to that question will never not be NO. 4
thecrucible Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 No. If you think a boundary has been crossed and you don't want the drama, don't accept a friend request from someone married unless there's definitely no chance of there being an ulterior motive. Trust me, you wouldn't want the drama.
Buddhist Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 And how would you feel if some random waiter slept with your wife? Begs thinking about does it not?
Author Mark1 Posted November 11, 2015 Author Posted November 11, 2015 And how would you feel if some random waiter slept with your wife? Begs thinking about does it not? Its not my duty to help a married woman not to cheat.
DrReplyInRhymes Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 (edited) And how would you feel if some random waiter slept with your wife? Begs thinking about does it not? She can have him then. Done thinking. Edited November 11, 2015 by DrReplyInRhymes fixd
Woggle Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 Sleeping with married women to me is scraping the bottom of the barrel. These guys can't get a date with a quality single woman so they hook up with women who notoriously have awful taste in men. 1
xcupid Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 Its not my duty to help a married woman not to cheat. You're right, it's not your duty. It's called having morals. 1
TunaCat Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 It's not your duty of course, but I'm sure you have other legitimate options. Other single options.
losangelena Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 Its not my duty to help a married woman not to cheat. I mean, yes, that's true on a certain level. However, when you ask, "did I mess up," what exactly do you think you messed up? The chance to b*ng some married lady? For easy p*ssy? I mean, yes I guess you did miss an opportunity there. Do better next time.
J21 Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 Pure class. Bravo chap. You are clearly a premium cut man.
Buddhist Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 Its not my duty to help a married woman not to cheat. Convenient sidestepping of any morals on your behalf. While it's true she owns her actions, likewise you own yours. If you know she's married and you still go there then you are a part of the betrayal of someone else. Whether you personally know them or not doesn't matter. You're still a conscious party to it.
ManyDissapoint Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 It would be unethical on your part at a level of 1/10. Unethical on her part 10/10. If she is willing to cheat on her husband with you, there will be other men to fill those shoes eventually.
PogoStick Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 No. They were just flirting and having fun - nothing was going to come of it... I disagree. Out of 6, chances are at least one would have hooked up. And still a good chance one of them will if you pursue it via facebook. By the way, by age 40 many women are raunchy and sexual like that group. And it gets worse as they hit 50s and 60s. They lose their inhibition and shame. Nothing wrong with that in my opinion. Anyway, I've seen many of the bitter wives "girls night out" groups. They are out like a wolf pack. I've seen groups like that, where ALL 6 of the women are cheating on their husbands. They all know it, and even help each other in doing so. I met some 40ish women out for one of their birthdays. The other girls pitched in for a hotel room so the birthday girl could have a private place to hookup with her man on the side. I'm laughing at all of the responses berating this (probably young) man. Those women are looking for a guy like you. You're right, it's their problem not yours. Go enjoy it.
Lois_Griffin Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 As extremely attractive as a bunch of middle aged, married, drunken bar flies giving each other dildos and talking about fisting might BE, I think you dodged a huge bullet. They sound like the type who'd chew you up and spit you out before you knew what the hell happened. And just so you know, it sounds as though it could have pretty much been anyone these women would have played with all night long. It just happened to be your table they sat at.
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