Kylemopar Posted November 10, 2015 Posted November 10, 2015 So I've started working at a Denny's as a host two weeks ago. On my first day I met a beautiful girl who works as a waitress. I only work on the weekends starting an hour earlier than she does. We talked for a bit, got her to smile and laugh. I the second week I went to work I gave her my number near the end of my shift. We flirted for a bit at the beginning of the day. The next day I got to talk to her more and as she talked to another waitress near where I was she was talking about how her car is perfect for her since she's single and with no kids, it's a Ford Fiesta...this car would be perfect if you weren't single and did have kids. She said it loud enough for me to hear clearly, but I tend to mistake signals all the time. She hasn't called or texted me yet. But she tends to smile at me when she walks towards me at the same time looking kind of looking away or at the ground when she does. Even when I told her that I was going on my break she told me she didn't want me to. One of my coworkers told me that she's usually very serious and that she's doesn't talk to anyone, not even saying good morning when she clocks in. I've been told that she only says good morning and talks to me and another waitress. Usually when I have nothing to do I start wrapping the silverware in napkins and not before long she does the same and we talk for a bit as we do it. So what do you guys think? Is she interested? Help me out here, I'm kind of bad with girls so if she's not can you guys help me to get her interested? She already likes my car, I drive a Challenger. I also feel like I gave her my number a bit too early and when I told her that one of the customers hit on me she didn't seem to care.
Glitters Posted November 10, 2015 Posted November 10, 2015 She already likes my car, I drive a Challenger. Its better if you know the person before knowing their assets. Assets can come and go but qualities of a prson dont.Choose someone who loves you as a person not the car you drive or bank balance. In this day and age, material things take an upfront, so dont blame
Author Kylemopar Posted November 10, 2015 Author Posted November 10, 2015 Well finding out what I drove was one do the last things she found out about me, it was after I gave her my number.
Author Kylemopar Posted November 11, 2015 Author Posted November 11, 2015 (edited) On a side note I'm 21 and she's 24. I just want to know if there's a way I can get her more interested in me. I already have her my number but I don't think she'll call. I told her that if she doesn't find anything to do one day to call me....and nothing Edited November 11, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator thread jack clean-up ~6
one goal Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 (edited) On a side note I'm 21 and she's 24. I just want to know if there's a way I can get her more interested in me. I already have her my number but I don't think she'll call. I told her that if she doesn't find anything to do one day to call me....and nothing It's usually harder for a younger guy to date an older girl. It's common the other way around though. Edited November 11, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator redacted off-topic posting ~6
PegNosePete Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 I just want to know if there's a way I can get her more interested in me. Stop being a big baby and ask her out. 1
Author Kylemopar Posted November 11, 2015 Author Posted November 11, 2015 How??? I'm not the best at talking to women...
schiller Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 I already have her my number but I don't think she'll call. I told her that if she doesn't find anything to do one day to call me That's really weak. Girls aren't attracted to weak. No wonder she hasn't called you. If you're too afraid to ask her out and you're leaving it all for her to do then you really don't have much of a chance. Get over it, ask her for her number and call her. Or just say to her "how about dinner next Friday night." Or try some humor. Say "there's a wild party at my house next Friday. Drinking, partying, maybe even lots of sex and fighting, see you at 9?". After she says ok, say "by the way dress however you like, it's just going to be me and you"
carhill Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 Ask her out. Yeah, pretty much. I lulz because a friend's daughter was recently gushing about one of my vintage cars when we went out to dinner and, no, I didn't confuse that with 'interest'. She wanted the car when I left the state, not me OP, reading downthread, yeah, when asking a lady on a date, be specific. If she's interested, and the specifics don't match, trust me she's got a big brain under all that hair and can easily suggest alternatives. That's how this dating stuff works.
bluefeather Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 I gave her my number near the end of my shift. MISTAKE. You should have asked for her number instead. Giving a girl your number is totally lame. You are telling her to call you by doing that. You should be sending the message that you want to call her.
Author Kylemopar Posted November 11, 2015 Author Posted November 11, 2015 Well I've only talked to her for 3 days so far...I inly work with her on the weekends. I'll ask her by Saturday or Sunday. I just thought maybe it was too soon?
schiller Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 Well I've only talked to her for 3 days so far...I inly work with her on the weekends. I'll ask her by Saturday or Sunday. I just thought maybe it was too soon? Guys sometimes ask for numbers after they've met a girl for only a minute or 2. 1
Author Kylemopar Posted November 11, 2015 Author Posted November 11, 2015 Okay so I think I know how I want to ask her out. I'm gonna ask her if she has any plans next week. She'll say no like she did last time and will probably as me if I have plans...like she also has done. I'll then say, "Actually I do, I plan to take a very beautiful woman out to eat on Wednesday. The problem is that I haven't asked her yet. So on that note, can I take you out for dinner on Wednesday?" Is that any good???
schiller Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 Okay so I think I know how I want to ask her out. I'm gonna ask her if she has any plans next week. She'll say no like she did last time and will probably as me if I have plans...like she also has done. I'll then say, "Actually I do, I plan to take a very beautiful woman out to eat on Wednesday. The problem is that I haven't asked her yet. So on that note, can I take you out for dinner on Wednesday?" Is that any good??? No, it's very lame. Just say to her "How about we go out next Friday for dinner?" 1
Siquijor Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 You've flirted together, she's giving you positive signs and you work with each other. Come on man this is probably the easiest of scenario's in which to ask out a girl. It's not like you're cold approaching a total stranger.
bluefeather Posted November 12, 2015 Posted November 12, 2015 (edited) Well I've only talked to her for 3 days so far...I inly work with her on the weekends. I'll ask her by Saturday or Sunday. I just thought maybe it was too soon? So it's too soon to ask if you can call her, but not too soon to tell her to call you? Nope. Buddy, you might be missing your chance here. That scenario you put where you ask her in a cutesy way might work, but only if the two of you are on the same level. But I'm gonna be blunt and say that if you are making rookie mistakes like giving her your number and expecting her to call you, that you don't have the charismatic skill to pull that one off... But hey man, go for it if you feel it. Maybe you can do it! IMO, it's a lot easier to just be honest than try to be suave. I wouldn't even start with "what are you doing on x day," I would say something like, "I really enjoy talking with you. Can I take you out to lunch some time?" Then make a date. Edited November 12, 2015 by bluefeather
bluefeather Posted November 12, 2015 Posted November 12, 2015 I also wanna throw in for caution... remember the risk you are getting into with romance in the workplace.
truth_seeker Posted November 12, 2015 Posted November 12, 2015 Okay so I think I know how I want to ask her out. I'm gonna ask her if she has any plans next week. She'll say no like she did last time and will probably as me if I have plans...like she also has done. I'll then say, "Actually I do, I plan to take a very beautiful woman out to eat on Wednesday. The problem is that I haven't asked her yet. So on that note, can I take you out for dinner on Wednesday?" Is that any good??? Who are you? The Dos Equis guy? BTW, I doubt you could ever deliver all of that to her smoothly. Keep it Simple: "Lets do something Wednesday night. Give me your number and I'll call you."
Author Kylemopar Posted November 14, 2015 Author Posted November 14, 2015 Okay so I asked her out for next Friday and she said yes. Does that mean that she's interested or that she said yes just to be nice? Should I ask for her number tomorrow? She kept smiling at me and yelling me out, but I beleive its just because I'm new
bluefeather Posted November 14, 2015 Posted November 14, 2015 Okay so I asked her out for next Friday and she said yes. Congrats!!! Does that mean that she's interested or that she said yes just to be nice? How the heck should I know? lol Should I ask for her number tomorrow? :face palm: yes... should'a gotten it when you asked her out, but ok, get it tomorrow! She kept smiling at me and yelling me out, but I beleive its just because I'm new Hey man, you asked her out and she said yes. That's a win right there. Great job
ExpatInItaly Posted November 15, 2015 Posted November 15, 2015 Okay so I asked her out for next Friday and she said yes. Does that mean that she's interested or that she said yes just to be nice? Should I ask for her number tomorrow? She kept smiling at me and yelling me out, but I beleive its just because I'm new Good heavens, OP. You need some self-confidence. Of course she's interested or she wouldn't have said yes. Being nice would be her turning you down and saying she's busy or sick or her friend's cat died or something. So, you need to muster up some confidence and enjoy the date. And by all means, ask for her number.
Author Kylemopar Posted November 15, 2015 Author Posted November 15, 2015 Hahaha I have self confidence but the girls I have been with have been the most confusing girls ever so I don't know of she's different or not. But on another note, I got her number....what now? Should I wait to text her or call her the day I plan to take her out?
bluefeather Posted November 15, 2015 Posted November 15, 2015 But on another note, I got her number....what now? Should I wait to text her or call her the day I plan to take her out? Only text her as a last resort. That's what wusses do because they're afraid to talk, or people who can't talk or don't want to. There are exceptions to that, but right now, you want this girl, so at least call her when you are picking her up on Friday. You need to make sure that your communication is as clear as possible. As for when to contact her, I don't know. Did you already make plans, like do you know where you are taking her? Also, are you going to see her throughout the week? If you see her often, and already made plans for the date, I might hold back on calling or texting her.
Author Kylemopar Posted November 16, 2015 Author Posted November 16, 2015 That was a perfect response. I only see her on the weekends, I don't know where I'm taking her so I guess I'll ask her what she likes to do or like to eat.
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