Coollaxer Posted November 10, 2015 Posted November 10, 2015 A while back when we lost our virginity to eachother I swore I wouldn't tell anyone and I ended up breaking that promise ( if you wanna know the full story look at my previous posts ) I texted some people saying I had sex with her and that didn't go well (only about 3 people really) but we've gotten over that, now she found out by going through my phone once already and she had no reason to do that and she was TOATALLY out if line since but it so happened that I did lie to her about telling People we had sex. Now that was months ago and she also told me she would never do it again, but she asks once in a while if she can play on my phone, now she usually asks bit maybe once or 2 times I was in the bath room and i come back to he scrolling down my Twitter. Should I be worried or even confront her? I want to bit if it Turn out she really only did wanna go on my news feed I'll look like a dick. Now another thing. Yes I lied and I regret it but I've told like 2 or 3 other ppl we had sex and she asks once in a while I told more people and I ovbiously say no since I don't wanna start problems, and 1 more thing, her mother is quite bitter so I don't like her and she is quite mean. Now she told me not to tell anyone this bit I wanted to talk to my Dad mother about it and my family and they all don't like her now. And she often asked me if I told anyone about her mother being the way she is and I say no bc I don't wanna start problems. Now here are my questions 1. Should I be worried she wants to go though my phone? 2. Should I feel guilty for sharing this with my family? ( just about her mother being mean to her and she thinks that we aren't a good match bc of school and i don't know how that matters in a relationship.)
joseb Posted November 10, 2015 Posted November 10, 2015 Put a code on your phone so it's locked, then she can't snoop. She is free to read your twitter feed herself on her own phone.
KatZee Posted November 10, 2015 Posted November 10, 2015 She has no right to go through your phone, but seriously, you damaged the trust. She specifically asked you not to talk about your sex life and instead of respecting her, and her wishes, you run and blab it out to whoever wants to hear about it. And then she asks you AGAIN, have you told any one else, and you flat out lie to her face after running your mouth again to more people. Jesus Christ, grow up and shut your mouth, and stop being such a liar. Let me tell you something about women. If we ask you a question, we're giving you the opportunity to be honest, because 9 outta 10 times, we KNOW the truth, and we're giving you the chance to be honest. You weren't. You've damaged trust, you've damaged it again. Is there a reason you can't be truthful, and why you don't respect her enough to keep your sex life private? 1
PogoStick Posted November 10, 2015 Posted November 10, 2015 No you shouldn't feel guilty for sharing with people who are important to you. You should feel guilty for lying about it. You must be young because when you're 30 nobody gives a F when you have sex.
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