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Yeah, I think so too. My exh was all about the boobys- but he liked my booty too. I think BF likes the booty better! He's always touching it and stuff- like if we're in the store and no one is looking, he will "brush" up against it with his hand- but I know he's doing it on purpose!

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for some odd reason, i tend to attract the dudes who are broke by all means, and dont really have nothin goin for them...no ambition, and they crazy...

 

why do i attract them?!?!

 

maybe because im in college with big dreams and a map n my pocket of what i am going to do in life, and i am making moves and money and they wanna be apart of that..or maybe i just got sum good ol stuff between my legs :o

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geeks and creeps.

 

Never dated any creeps.

 

And since I'm a geek, I attract them *sigh*. Not to sound shallow, but next time, I'm going for a "good looking" geek, cos the guys I date dont tend to be very good looking either. I tend to go for personality/caring, which I believed my exh had for me but now I realize it was an illusion. So i might as well go for a better looking guy in case he ditches me too :p

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Originally posted by dgiirl

geeks and creeps.

 

Never dated any creeps.

 

And since I'm a geek, I attract them *sigh*. Not to sound shallow, but next time, I'm going for a "good looking" geek, cos the guys I date dont tend to be very good looking either. I tend to go for personality/caring, which I believed my exh had for me but now I realize it was an illusion. So i might as well go for a better looking guy in case he ditches me too :p

 

You and western. There ya go!

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Originally posted by dgiirl

but next time, I'm going for a "good looking" geek, cos the guys I date dont tend to be very good looking either.

 

So i might as well go for a better looking guy in case he ditches me too :p

better to be dissed by a good looking person than an ugly one. :)

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Originally posted by tiki

You and western. There ya go!

 

Hey, I saw that. LOL

 

White girls seem to like me a lot. Latinas, too.

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I used to think I attracted whiney, needy guys, but then I realized I was just a bitch.

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Originally posted by magda

I used to think I attracted whiney, needy guys, but then I realized I was just a bitch.

 

:lmao:

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Originally posted by Mz. Pixie

Marsh-

 

Yeah, that's the song!!

 

I got the wording wrong! :D

 

Yeah, some white guys love the JB too. He's been making a list of the things that he loves about me. One of them was "Your xss, your xss, your xss" :lmao:

 

Chics with a little more ass are way HOT. They remind me of a Porsche 911 :laugh: . The J-Lo figure is up to my threshold however. The Beyonce figure is more my speed.

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My exes have all been very different. The only thing they've really had in common was that they weren't pretty boys, they were intelligent, and most of them could fix a car or other mechanical equipment if needed. Other than that, their personalities and backgrounds have been very different.

 

Well, with one exception. There was one pretty boy I had to instruct how to use jumper cables that I went out with a few times.

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Originally posted by tiki

You and western. There ya go!

 

lol yah but he spams. Noone likes a spammer ;)

 

 

Originally posted by alphamale

better to be dissed by a good looking person than an ugly one. :)

 

Exactly. Might as well get some eye candy if I'm gonna get dumped anyways :)

 

Originally posted by magda

I used to think I attracted whiney, needy guys, but then I realized I was just a bitch.

 

lol :) My coworkers are wondering what I'm laughing at! Now i'm in trouble :)

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Originally posted by dgiirl

lol yah but he spams. Noone likes a spammer ;)

 

I'll spam you in places you wouldn't believe... :D

 

Excuse me, I meant broadcast.

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When I was in college I attracted cute, not-so-hot, smart girls who ended up being emotionally incapable in some way.

 

After grad school (after the end of a 4-year live-together relationship) I attracted psychotic women with nice bodies who taught me a lot about sex but made me hate women for a while.

 

For two years after that, I attracted no one.

 

My girlfriend now is extremely good-looking and I respect her. She doesn't trust me and shows occasional signs of getting over it, but mostly she digs the status quo.

 

Other girls who seem to be attracted to me lately seem smart and have good style.

 

The coffee shop girl was REALLY flirting with me today. Not sure why. She can't seem to remember my name.

 

I tried to stay on topic.

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Originally posted by johan

For two years after that, I attracted no one.

like...bummer, man....dry spells suck :)

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I attract everyone :confused: I bot a fake diamond ring to keep men away but surprising how many, INCLUDING married and "committed" men, couldn't care less if I was engaged or married! SO disappointing...

 

Also depends on what I'm wearing. If I'm in a suit, I'll attract mostly professionals, but if I'm in regular clothes, sky's the limit - every guy who crosses my path will show interest :rolleyes: .

 

I get hit on by famous men ~ many live around me- actors, musicians, politicians, athletes :D

 

This was a big problem w/ my last bf (who was very jealous). He stopped taking me out because he couldn't handle other men looking at me. If I made eye contact with another man or if someone approached me to ask or say something...oh my gosh I don't want to remember what would follow. He started wanting me to gain weight, stop wearing make up, wear ugly clothes! etc etc but that's a whole other topic :sick: !!! At least it brought me to LS :)

 

My goodness, many of my ex's have been jealous and obsesive - one tatooing my name HUGELY across his chest, another on his arm!, I've had restraining orders...wow, I guess I attract psychos??? :confused: but they seem so normal in the beginning :o

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hmmm.. back in school I always attracted the slightly crazy party girls. Bad girls I guess you would call it. The Leather jackets wearing, AC/DC listening, drugs, drinking, waiting to be a biker's girlfriend type. They were a lot of fun, but I rarely dated them.

 

For the last 6 years the type I seem to attract is: None :confused:

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Weirdos! They all want to touch my bum :mad:!

 

Except for this type of unwanted attention, I attract funny smart guys, but they either are mommies boys, yet commitment phobes or too dependant on me. Drives me crazy :rolleyes:

 

what else... oh, I forgot, they all wanna have serious relationships with me. WTF is wrong with that? Even the commitment phobes. I feel it's not even for me, it for what I symbolize.

 

 

 

Pocky, BO, I wanna be your friend too, pretty please !!!! This way I can have cats to play with and pot to smoke for fun :D! Good plan, isn't it?

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Originally posted by HotCaliGirl

 

 

This was a big problem w/ my last bf (who was very jealous). He stopped taking me out because he couldn't handle other men looking at me.

 

My goodness, many of my ex's have been jealous and obsesive - one tatooing my name HUGELY across his chest, another on his arm!, I've had restraining orders...wow, I guess I attract psychos??? :confused: but they seem so normal in the beginning :o

 

:laugh:

 

I attract these type of Guys too! :eek:

 

Jealous, Insecure and for real obsessive.. AND yes they always seemed so "Normal" (whatever that is!) in the beginning as well... :confused: Damn!

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I always attract the relationship-wanna-be-havin type.

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they either wanna touch my butt or introduce me to their parents. Or both. And usually against my will !

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I seem to attract one of two extremes: either REALLY nice guys, or total jerks.

 

The REALLY nice guys I attract are too nice, in other words, they let people walk all over them. This includes me unfortunately. I need a guy who will stand up to me and tell me when I'm wrong or tell me when I've screwed up. I always inadvertently end up "eating these guys alive" so to speak.

 

Then there's the other end of the spectrum. Th eother guys I attract are complete jerks. They either have: a huge ego, a drug problem, a drinking problem, anger issues, problems staying faithful or all of the above. It's usually all of the above.

 

Ugh. Go figure. I just want a happy medium, but the happy mediums don't seem to come may way. What's a girl to do :rolleyes:

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Originally posted by CurlyIam

Pocky, BO, I wanna be your friend too, pretty please !!!! This way I can have cats to play with and pot to smoke for fun :D! Good plan, isn't it?

 

We shall drink tea and eat strawberry shortcake, and I will force you to watch samurai movies with me. :p

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Please do, pleeeeeaaassseee do!! I'll hate it from the bottom of my heart, but I'll do it :love: !!

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Originally posted by CurlyIam

they either wanna touch my butt or introduce me to their parents. Or both.

 

Hopefully not at the same time? :laugh:

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no, no, they're showing me off in front of mommy and daddy! It's when they're not looking that I have to be extracareful!

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