alphamale Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 When meeting new people to date or making new friends do you tend to attract a certain type of person, physically or mentally or personality-wise?? Do certain types of individuals approach you more so than others? Are they the right type or the wrong type? If certain types of people seek you out consistently why do you think that is?
IhavenoFREAKINclue Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 I always seem to attract the geeks. Maybe b/c I'm attractive, they think I'm shallow and mean. But when they speak to me, they realize that I'm not mean and they get attracted. What can I say....
Pocky Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 I don't really meet new people. If I didn't have a husband, I'd be the typical cat lady.
blind_otter Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 Potheads. It's like they can smell it on me, or see the mighty glazed look in my eye. Also men who are not as educated as I am, an endless stream of construction workers, house framers, carpenters, painters, and unemployed drug dealers are attracted to me. Men who are as educated or more educated than me don't seem to be attracted to me. At least, THEY don't approach ME.
blind_otter Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 Originally posted by Pocky I don't really meet new people. If I didn't have a husband, I'd be the typical cat lady. Well I love you Pocky. Will you be my friiiiiiend??? Purty please with sugar on top?
tiki Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 Yes, when dating men, I cannot help but to think that I attract the closet queers. I dress boy~ish sometimes, wear hats, and have a horrible mouth and love sex. I am tomboyish - and a lot of guys like that for some reason. I think the ones that do like it, are some type of closet queer or something. I notice they like to have their brown eye rubbed too. Coincidence? Maybe.
Pocky Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 Originally posted by blind_otter Well I love you Pocky. Will you be my friiiiiiend??? Purty please with sugar on top? With pleasure - although I must tell you. I don't smoke - but I did! Still love me? In all honesty, my LS family are my main friends and it's like the perfect relationship. I can chat when I want, I can vent when I want, I can listen when I need to, I can give advice when I need to and I don't have to worry about you bitching that I didn't call or that I haven't visited in two years (even though you haven't visited me either) or that I forgot your birthday (my age, we don't count birthdays - get over it). I love my LS friends.
Author alphamale Posted May 25, 2005 Author Posted May 25, 2005 Originally posted by Pocky I love my LS friends. he he, Libby is so cute I tend to attract the smart, pushy types. Usually of scandinavian descent. At least these are the types of women that approach me. But I like the dumb, submissive, feminine kind
browneyes22 Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 I seem to attract women with issues. I've had a good upringing and my parents are great. Women I attract usually don't have a similar experience with their parent and childhood. They usually smoke or engage in some other destructive behaviour, are in failed relationships, but underneath it all are great. I have no idea why I attract these type of girls all the time. Perhaps subconciously I feel that women with issues I don't have in life are more interesting. Perhaps they see in me something they want for themselves. Who knows.
NTB Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 i'm not really sure what kind of women i attract never really thought about it but thinking back i think i attract all kinds of women........but what i do know is when i have a gf i attract allot more women then when i am single go figure
tiki Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 Hispanic men like me for my red hair and black men like me for da ghetto bootie. And pocky....your post was sweet.
Pocky Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale he he, Libby is so cute HAHA! You know, if I didn't have Libby we'd have to come up with another way to squeeze some sweet comments out of you in response to my posts. Until Libby came, I got no love from you.
Author alphamale Posted May 25, 2005 Author Posted May 25, 2005 Originally posted by NTB ........but what i do know is when i have a gf i attract allot more women then when i am single go figure aint that the truth NTB? when you have a woman already the other women think of u as more "valuable" cause u are already taken and must have something going for u since u have a girl. when you are single none of 'em want u . there was a Seinfeld episode on this subject.
blind_otter Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 Originally posted by Pocky With pleasure - although I must tell you. I don't smoke - but I did! Still love me? In all honesty, my LS family are my main friends and it's like the perfect relationship. I can chat when I want, I can vent when I want, I can listen when I need to, I can give advice when I need to and I don't have to worry about you bitching that I didn't call or that I haven't visited in two years (even though you haven't visited me either) or that I forgot your birthday (my age, we don't count birthdays - get over it). I love my LS friends. I feel the same way. Being that the few RL friends I have are not the best kinda people. And I have a habit of not answering my phone. Yes I still love ya, babe. Answering machine message: "I screen my calls so your message better be good or this is the last thing you'll hear from me." I think that the manual labor-type man is the closest thing I can get to a neanderthal. HAH. I tend to be very submissive and my deference becomes really amplified when I am with men. The guys who I have good solid long term relationships with are almost fatherly with me, and give me advice and guidance. The bad side of that is they can be controlling as well.
Marshbear Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 Originally posted by tiki Hispanic men like me for my red hair and black men like me for da ghetto bootie. Tiki, I would be attrached to you if you have a nice bootie and I am neither Black nor Hispanic. I love a nice bootie. MY WEAKNESS!!!
Author alphamale Posted May 25, 2005 Author Posted May 25, 2005 Originally posted by Marshbear Tiki, I would be attrached to you if you have a nice bootie and I am neither Black nor Hispanic. I love a nice bootie. MY WEAKNESS!!! I think that TIKI means a FAT bootie, you know....the kind that women wrap sweaters around!
tiki Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale I think that TIKI means a FAT bootie, you know....the kind that women wrap sweaters around! Hey my bootie is cute! You're just mad cuz Marshbear doesn't like YOUR bootie.
sarah12 Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 I attract the ones who have a lot of insecurities and are really needy, leading them to become highly obsessive about me (not to toot my own horn, but this is a pattern I've noticed among the men I've dated). I've been told that I tend to be overly caring and a good listener, and that's why I attract these types of men. I also don't attract the ones who are as educated as I am, but to be fair, I don't know many men who have the same level of education as I do. However when it comes to friendships, all of my female friends are as educated as I am, and have the same problem finding men who have the same level of education.
prisoner Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 for several years (read : ten) I dated several women who all had -yes this is true- the same birthday. They shared so many traits it was surreal at times. I dismiss astrology without prejudice but wow. I had to get away from the winter.
Author alphamale Posted May 25, 2005 Author Posted May 25, 2005 Originally posted by prisoner astrology without prejudice good name for a band, PRISONER>
Merin Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 Damn! I seem to attract Guys that are Assclowns Usually it seems I tend to attract Guys that are more "Beautiful" then they are "Handsome" know what I mean? Metro-Sexualish Oddly enough, I really don't care for the whole Metro-Sexual thing.. Damn!
RoxStar Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 Yeah I get roped in by the guys that are liars and have committment issues so there is my type. (WHICH I AM HOPING TO FIX NEXT TIME AROUND THE BLOCK) But all in all I would say I attract random guys. I have had 65 year old men hit on me, married men, white men, geeky guys, sporty guys, black men, hispanic men, all types... but the key is which ones do I end up getting attracted to and for some reason if they have issues I am all about them!
NTB Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 man right about now i want to attract a woman who is really sexual.......
Author alphamale Posted May 25, 2005 Author Posted May 25, 2005 Originally posted by RoxStar Yeah I get roped in by the guys that are liars and have committment issues so there is my type. yeah well ROXIE, if it's any consolation the only guys who aren't in the above category are the nerdy ones. and u wouldn't be interested in them anyways
RoxStar Posted May 25, 2005 Posted May 25, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale yeah well ROXIE, if it's any consolation the only guys who aren't in the above category are the nerdy ones. and u wouldn't be interested in them anyways Yeah I dont do normal too well. Very boring. They cant handle the RoxStar lifestyle!
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