calliemarie1013 Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 I need some general input prior to reacting to some changes in a friendship. My friend Kyle & I have know each other for 5 yrs & although we have always been close - schedule changes have recently given us some more free time to hang out w/ each other in our group of friends. Since hanging out more - Kyle has had some flirtatious interactions towards me & it is something we have NEVER done in our friendship. Ever. For ex: when walking at night with a group of people, he held my hand to guide me in the dark...little strange. Maybe I am reading into it too much. Another example: if we are hanging out with people, he will choose to sit next to me. He will put his arm around me & will make comments about me being pretty. He keeps making comments about how much he loves hanging out with me & missed us seeing each other...if we are with our group of friends and we dont get to talk alot - he will apologize for not talking as much to me. He has been texting me a lot recently but nothing has crossed the friendship line via texts. I texted him & a group of people yesterday confirming dinner plans we all had & he didn't respond - so I am taking that as maybe he isn't interested. I like our friendship but I don't want him to get all up in his head about our friendship. Kyle knows I am interested in someone else too - I don't want us to change & I don't want him to over analyze what is or isn't happening. I just want to stay where we are. Am I reading into everything too much?
TheCatInTheHat Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 I like our friendship but I don't want him to get all up in his head about our friendship. Kyle knows I am interested in someone else too - I don't want us to change & I don't want him to over analyze what is or isn't happening. I just want to stay where we are. Am I reading into everything too much? The way you describe it, sounds like he is coming on to you. Then again, it sounds like you have decided that he IS coming on to you, and probably project that in interpreting how he behaves towards you. Is he single? /TheCatInTheHat
Author calliemarie1013 Posted November 9, 2015 Author Posted November 9, 2015 I don't mean to project anything - it is just such a change from our normal interaction - I can't help but think he is. and yes - he is single.
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