imtheone Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 ive posted on here last night but still need more answers, so me and ex agreed to be friends obviously thats not what i wanted but i agreed. these are the i sent and just need some insight on all of this. me- if you want more in the future then let me know i wont bother you no more take care her- yea sure me- can you transfer that money me-do it now for me please i want to cut all ties me-ill call when i finish work cause i want to end things on a positive note tried to call but ignored me me- forget the money guess this is goodbye me-i was a bit harsh earlier i dont mind being friends the next day.. me- say something please i dont want this to get to me but it is me- im kind of losing focus at work, i respect you want to be friends but i dont understand why your ignoring me about the money, seems like your using that to not let me go me- i accept you dont even want to friends now but dont disrespect me by ignoring me when i asked you politely to transfer the money me- im wasted, but i just want to say i reacted like a d**k, i still want to salvage our friendship, im going to delete your details so i stop making a fool of myself, its down to you now, if you dont contact me again then look after yourself, i just regret acting this way its my fault. yes i know ive bombarded her with texts and honestly i do respect that she wants to friends but i dont understand whys she ignoring me about the money, not like she needs it as shes well off, like i said to her, to me it seems like shes holding on to that to use as an excuse to get in contact in the future, otherwise she would just give me the money back and tell me to leave her alone. Is she just upset cause i reacted badly by saying to give it back to cut all ties? just two weeks she said she wanted to work things out, and last monday we were making plans to go out this week. have i truly messed this one up? theres so many unanswered questions in my head, help me people!!! i feel so depressed, worthless all the negatives you can think of.
stillafool Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 I think she's ignoring you because she doesn't want to pay the money back. She sounds like a loser. She could have at least responded once. I'm sorry for you but I would just forget her and go NC because that's what she has done to you.
d0nnivain Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 Your behavior is clingy & unhealthy. That's my summation. If she owes you money, you need to kiss it goodbye because unless you have a legally enforceable contract with her, she is under no legal obligation to repay it. Plus the more you annoy her, the less likely it is that she will do anything you want. It's over. She's back with her EX. Your relationship was relatively short & you were merely a placeholder for him. Sorry. Accept that & try to retain what little is left of your dignity Do not try to be friends with her. Saying lets me friends is a LIE. She doesn't want you in her life. She doesn't want to talk to you. She doesn't want to spend time with you. What she does want is peace & no drama if you do bump into each other accidentally in the future. She probably wishes you well or at least has no affirmative plans to hurt you going forward. Beyond that she's done. But that was all she meant by being friends. Do you honestly think that her BF is going to be happy about her spending time with or talking to you? Of course not.
PegNosePete Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 i dont understand whys she ignoring me about the money Because she doesn't want to give it to you. Is she just upset cause i reacted badly by saying to give it back to cut all ties? No, she is ignoring you because you have become That Guy. The annoying ex who will not leave her alone. The guy who does not GET THE MESSAGE. have i truly messed this one up? Yes. Sorry. 1
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