James90 Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 Hi all, First of all thank you for taking the time to read my post, My ex gf dumped me 8 months ago, I still love her, anyways school separated us because were attending different universities. Been NC for almost two months until last week she texted me which I find odd cause she has never initiated contact after the break up, she pretty much asked how school was going and general stuff like that, just really checking up on me, until she randomly stopped in the middle o the conversation, she stopped replying. So i left it at that, didn't pursue. I hope you all are aware of what Snap chat is because two days after our convo, she starting posting pictures of her with this guy, which I believe there is something going on between them as she keeps on posting pictures with him. So I'm asking you people for your help. I feel hurt again because I still love her and it "appears" to be she might be with someone else. So how can I cope with the fact she might have a new bf. In all honesty I want her back but the timing is not right as we are separated by school. Should I just go cold turkey and leave her be and what ever happens happens, and hope to god that I'll be with her down the road which I believe will never happen again
marcusdevilliers Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 You cant cope by talking to her, checking up on her. Best advice i can say, start over. delete everything, block everywhere and MOVE ON. thats where the coping starts and it works when you start moving on. being happy and putting time in yourself and what makes you happy. i know how you feel, ive been in your shoes recently and hoped things would work out. but she moved on clearly, thats what you want from a girl? dropped you and moved on? no you deserve more and better. so dont pray to get her back now or later. pray for you n for u to be happy and find someone who deserves you. stay strong and keep your N.C throughout.
theredpill Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 Read the no contact guide and stick to it, trust me if you're struggling this is the best way to heal. Please note it's not a tool to get them back, it's for you to get back to who you where before the break up. Chin up, we feel your pain and it will get easier - everyone here will testify to that.
stillafool Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 Yes definitely leave her alone, go NC and heal. You don't know for certain that you two will be back together. She seems to be moving on and you should too by dating other girls. Good luck.
Shock148 Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 Unfortunately the only way to cope is really to NC. If you remain in contact with her or do not delete her from social media, then next time you randomly see a picture of her with that guy you will feel crushed or you will have a moment where you will want to check her profile to see how she is doing only to find things you do not want to see. It sucks and it is a horrible feeling when your ex girlfriend that you still love has moved on and found another man, but with time your pain will become less and less.
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