kxpxsc3 Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 Way overdue, but I deleted my ex from snapchat and facebook. The only connection left to him was social media frienship. Quick background, dated about 2 years. I found out I was pregnant earlier this year, he wanted me to abort and started to act like a jerk (seemingly to persuade me to abort)... ended in me miscarrying and it also ended us. Since then, we both moved out of state for work and he messaged me once in July to see how I was doing. I haven't heard from him since, so no word for 4 months, but kept hoping he would come around again. It finally sunk in that this guy doesn't care about what happened, and he's not coming back. I started to feel that he doesn't deserve my friendship, to see what I'm up to, and I also felt it was keeping me stuck to stay in the loop about how he's moving on, happy as hell, not caring about what happened to me this year. I feel sad today, because I closed the door that I was keeping open. But I realize it had to be closed... will it feel better eventually?? 1
louxor Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 will it feel better eventually?? Hell yeh it will! The door is now closed, there is nothing to tie you to him that can pop up randomly and set you back (apart from your thoughts - but you can learn to control those) He is now un-officially dead and highway to recovery has opened! Removing my links to my ex on social media has been the best decision of my breakup, because when I get tempted to see what she's up to, I have no way of doing it, and when I don't know what she's up to, it can't hurt me! This will be much the same for you now if you stay strong with it. Good luck!
Heartbrokenguy80 Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 Way overdue, but I deleted my ex from snapchat and facebook. The only connection left to him was social media frienship. Quick background, dated about 2 years. I found out I was pregnant earlier this year, he wanted me to abort and started to act like a jerk (seemingly to persuade me to abort)... ended in me miscarrying and it also ended us. Since then, we both moved out of state for work and he messaged me once in July to see how I was doing. I haven't heard from him since, so no word for 4 months, but kept hoping he would come around again. It finally sunk in that this guy doesn't care about what happened, and he's not coming back. I started to feel that he doesn't deserve my friendship, to see what I'm up to, and I also felt it was keeping me stuck to stay in the loop about how he's moving on, happy as hell, not caring about what happened to me this year. I feel sad today, because I closed the door that I was keeping open. But I realize it had to be closed... will it feel better eventually?? Kudos to you for your courage. I have yet able to do that even after 4 months. I know I will be able to do it and I have to do it one day.
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