savvy2008 Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 I have some other threads if anyone wants background info. I looked to see how active he was, because I know he scrolls a lot but doesn't comment or like much. Well I found that he was commenting and liking pretty much everything and he was reaching out to people. It seemed like in general he was trying to distract himself. I don't want him back, I wasn't looking for some sign he was miserable without me. But... Seeing that he is struggling feels kind of good considering the circumstances. Is this wrong? I miss him if course but feel that he has too many problems seeing as how he didn't stay and fight for us, love is a choice and he chose to walk away from it. However I have been doing really well considering, even in comparison to past break UPS. He's meant the most to me out of everyone and I haven't spoken to him since and I just feel refreshed right now. Does everyone feel this way after creeping a recent exes facebook or am I just weird?
didithappen Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 I have some other threads if anyone wants background info. I looked to see how active he was, because I know he scrolls a lot but doesn't comment or like much. Well I found that he was commenting and liking pretty much everything and he was reaching out to people. It seemed like in general he was trying to distract himself. I don't want him back, I wasn't looking for some sign he was miserable without me. But... Seeing that he is struggling feels kind of good considering the circumstances. Is this wrong? I miss him if course but feel that he has too many problems seeing as how he didn't stay and fight for us, love is a choice and he chose to walk away from it. However I have been doing really well considering, even in comparison to past break UPS. He's meant the most to me out of everyone and I haven't spoken to him since and I just feel refreshed right now. Does everyone feel this way after creeping a recent exes facebook or am I just weird? It's not wrong but you can't really say for certain what he's thinking. He is probably trying to reconnect with people that he fell out with being in a relationship. I started liking a lot more things and commenting after my breakup, and yeah it was because I was struggling and wanted to build more friendships. Either way I think you should de friend him. Your not completely over him if you still are monitoring his activity. It doesn't mean that you don't care about him or hate him, it means you are taking responsible steps to moving on. Keeping tabs on people isn't healthy and impedes true recovery. It's hard at first but you will find it's one of the best things that you can do. I de-friended my ex the second I noticed that she hid posts from me. It was a good call. Sure later I learned she hid posts from me because she was ashamed of her cheating ways and trying to hide her new boyfriend, who used to be my friend, but that's irrelevant.
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