priscillamarles Posted November 9, 2015 Posted November 9, 2015 So i have been seeing this guy for about a year now and he is 19 and i am 18. It is a very complicated relationship as in less than 2 months i am moving back to England from Australia so it has been very difficult not to get too attached and obviously not making us official boyfriend and girlfriend although we basically are. At first it started off with just seeing each other at parties and stuff but in the last 3 months he comes over almost every sunday when my mum is not here and i have been to his a couple of times. In the almost year we have been seeing each other we have only had sex 4 times and only when drunk. Almost every time he comes over though we always do other stuff just not sex and he is always keen for that or initiates it. i just do not know what to do, why doesn't he want sex? its not like we haven't done it before and it makes me feel like i am the problem just need some advice because i really like him but i just worry. I have tried giving hints but he just does not seem to get it.
Samhain Posted November 13, 2015 Posted November 13, 2015 He probably does gets your hints, he just acts like he doesn't because you're right, he doesn't want sex with you. I wouldn't worry about it being you, most guys offered sex on a plate on a regular basis wouldn't pass the opportunity by even if it were someone they were not emotionally invested in. You haven't said too much about him as a person so it's hard to form an opinion, but first and foremost, are you sure he's all that into women?
CalvinM Posted November 13, 2015 Posted November 13, 2015 He probably doesn't want to get attached, since you're moving out of continent. Seems pretty obvious to me. 1
PogoStick Posted November 13, 2015 Posted November 13, 2015 I hate to offer such extreme advice. But you could tell him that you want to have sex and ask him why he seems hesitant.
Redfisher Posted November 13, 2015 Posted November 13, 2015 Just grab his junk....Works every-time. 1
mystikmind2005 Posted November 14, 2015 Posted November 14, 2015 Just grab his junk....Works every-time. Hahaha, i wonder do they have any valentines card with that line? 1
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