somewhatconfused Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 (edited) 1 = Nah, you're good. 10 = Holy ****, you're a stalker. (Lol) Okay, so my Ex Girlfriend and I blah blah blah, yadda, yadda. Anyways, all I want to know is if I blew her up message wise too much. I won't be messaging her anymore. If she wants to contact me, she will. Sept 2nd - 13th = 7 Facebook Messages Sept 2nd = 4 missed calls Sept 14th - 17th = 4 Facebook messages to her sister. Sept 21st and 24th = 2 facebook messages to her sister, 1 on each day. Sept 29th = Called once, no answer. Oct 13th = Got a happy birthday, but only said thanks. Oct 20th = 1 message to her sister and blocked her because of something someone told me. Nov 2nd = Messaged her sister 2 times, apologizing for acting on something someone told me. (Turned out to be a lie.) Nov 6th = Messaged her sister once, with a video message specifically for her and my ex to see. Wasn't an emotional video. It was more or less, asking her to say it was over for good, if it indeed is. November 7th = Attempted to call my ex 1 time, no answer. Will not be trying to contact again. Edited November 8, 2015 by somewhatconfused Link to post Share on other sites
louxor Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 1 = Nah, you're good. 10 = Holy ****, you're a stalker. (Lol) Okay, so my Ex Girlfriend and I blah blah blah, yadda, yadda. Anyways, all I want to know is if I blew her up message wise too much. I won't be messaging her anymore. If she wants to contact me, she will. Sept 2nd - 13th = 7 Facebook Messages Sept 2nd = 4 missed calls Sept 14th - 17th - 4 Facebook messages to her sister. Sept 29th - Called once, no answer. Oct 13th - Got a happy birthday, but only said thanks. Oct 20th - 1 message to her sister and blocked her because of something someone told me. Nov 2nd - Messaged her sister 2 times, apologizing for acting on something someone told me. (Turned out to be a lie.) Nov 6th - Messaged her sister once, with a video message specifically for her and my ex to see. Wasn't an emotional video. It was more or less, asking her to say it was over for good, if it indeed is. November 7th - Attempted to call my ex 1 time, no answer. Will not be trying to contact again. 10/10 Why? Look at the part I have put into bold - You know this to be the case, so why keep trying to contact her? The longer it went on, the more desperate and needy your attempts at contact became, and this will only serve to reinforce her idea that she needs to stay away from you. Contacting her sister? Sending her sister a video message? Come on man, that's way too much. You have been trying to contact her for over 2 months with no reply, what more do you need to see to tell you that yes, IT IS OVER FOR GOOD. Link to post Share on other sites
Author somewhatconfused Posted November 8, 2015 Author Share Posted November 8, 2015 Yea, I get that it's over now. Thanks for reinforcing that. I just want to get an idea of how I was, so I can avoid this situation with the next wench that tries to hurt me. Of course, there will be regrets. That's life though, I guess. Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted November 9, 2015 Share Posted November 9, 2015 Yeah, you're pretty close to a 10. Link to post Share on other sites
dumbass2 Posted November 9, 2015 Share Posted November 9, 2015 11/10 I'm assuming the only thing you have heard from here is the happy birthday. All those messages and nothing from her. You should have grabbed the clue after all those Facebook messages. Sorry to be so harsh, but for your own self respect, do not ever contact her or her sister or anyone that knows her again and by the way.....it is over. You don't need closure from her. You got it. Link to post Share on other sites
lollipopspot Posted November 9, 2015 Share Posted November 9, 2015 Can you put all that energy and intensity into a meaningful life goal, like some type of charity work? There are people who would really appreciate your persistence for a cause, but this lady doesn't want to be your cause. And I'll call you maybe a 9. Link to post Share on other sites
mightycpa Posted November 9, 2015 Share Posted November 9, 2015 You'd have been a 9 or a 10 yesterday, except I read about a guy who got dumped, and AFTER blowing up her phone, jumped on a plane to go plead his case. He got a beat down, and went home with his tail between his legs. He was asking if we thought she might eventually come back. So as pathetic as you make it sound, you don't really hold a candle to this guy. I give you an 8 today. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
dumbass2 Posted November 9, 2015 Share Posted November 9, 2015 You'd have been a 9 or a 10 yesterday, except I read about a guy who got dumped, and AFTER blowing up her phone, jumped on a plane to go plead his case. He got a beat down, and went home with his tail between his legs. He was asking if we thought she might eventually come back. So as pathetic as you make it sound, you don't really hold a candle to this guy. I give you an 8 today. Yep I read that one too, so I will change mine to 9/10. That one was truly over 10/10. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted November 9, 2015 Share Posted November 9, 2015 You'd have been a 9 or a 10 yesterday, except I read about a guy who got dumped, and AFTER blowing up her phone, jumped on a plane to go plead his case. He got a beat down, and went home with his tail between his legs. He was asking if we thought she might eventually come back. So as pathetic as you make it sound, you don't really hold a candle to this guy. I give you an 8 today. All of this. OP, your behaviour is still inappropriate. What on earth are you thinking messaging the sister? You must learn to respect boundaries and not be so invasive and pushy. Link to post Share on other sites
pisces_gurl Posted November 9, 2015 Share Posted November 9, 2015 And that guy didn't stalk me or message me from a fake ID or number, after I blocked him. I feel so empty now. Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts