marcusdevilliers Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 Just a bit curious here. After a date like dinner or just a drink. what do you ladies prefer, end the date there or do something again. what would you like to do after the date? thank you ladies .. you all are amazing Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 It varies. If it's a week night I probably just want to go home because I have to get up in the morning for work. If a weekend, & it was fun date I might want to do something else. If we are already intimate, I probably want to go home & get busy. Link to post Share on other sites
Empyrea Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 I don't necessarily expect anything, but it would be super nice if the guy made me feel like he doesn't want to part with me yet by taking for a little walk in a scenic place for example. I remember my best first date was that we went to a movie and he asked afterwards what I want to do now - and since it was a "school night" I said - go home? (with a question mark in my voice, because I had no idea if he even wanted spend more time with me or if he had an early morning, I at least wanted to give him an out in case he needed it) and then he said, how about a walk by the beach. And then we drove to this scenic place and parked and walked by the beach and climbed on the rocks there (good excuse to hold hands) and spend hours there actually! It was lovely. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
StBreton Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 If we were an item/couple...go home and do some horizontal aerobics. If we were just dating...definitely go for a walk, go see some live music/go dancing, go for a drive, go see a movie. (only if I like the guy...otherwise I'd cut the date short) Ok I'm really missing dating right now...time to get back out there! Link to post Share on other sites
Zapbasket Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 I'm with everyone else who replied: when the connection is good and you both seem really to be enjoying yourselves at dinner, then a little something to extend the time--a walk, or going to an ice cream shop for dessert rather than order dessert at the restaurant, or going to a scenic overlook or spot and continuing talking.... I remember one of the early dates with the guy with whom I was in a relationship from age 25 to age 30, we were in Cambridge, MA and after dinner he walked me home all the way across the Harvard bridge to Fenway Park. We stopped in the middle of the bridge and stared out over the water and the cityscape and just talked. I loved it and it sent quite the message that he was willing to walk all that way, and late at night, just to continue the evening with me. I knew he wasn't expecting to sleep over because I had a roommate in a one-room apartment and we made sure he took a cab home. I'm smiling now as I remember that evening, now over ten years ago; it was really special. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
acrosstheuniverse Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 For the first few dates, I like to just finish dinner and then go home. Sometimes to a bar afterwards but the bars around me are always super busy and loud so it's just no fun and impossible to talk! So in general I like to have dinner, go home separately. Once we have been on a few dates I might start going back to the guy's house or inviting him back to mine to watch a music gig DVD or something. ps I have no idea where that 'thumbs down' came from above my post lol. Link to post Share on other sites
Maggie4 Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 ...yeah...I'm pretty amazing... It really depends on the guy and even with the same guy, it depends on how I'm feeling that night. But I have no trouble communicating any desire to do something else. After dinner, I like taking a walk. I don't like to sit or lie down after a big meal. (I guess I'm assuming the meal was big.) Link to post Share on other sites
KatZee Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 Depends how into the guy I am. Weekend/weekday doesn't matter. If I'm on a date with a guy and I'm having a really good time, I want the guy to initiate an extend, if of course, he's having a great time as well. It doesn't have to be anything crazy. I've had guys take me to another spot for dessert, or asked to see my neighborhood and we walked around sat and talked, I had another guy take me for coffee after dinner and then we walked around Barnes and Noble. What I do with a guy I'm interested in really doesn't matter, as long as I still get to enjoy the evening with him a bit longer. Don't go making yourself crazy trying to plan extravagant things. Link to post Share on other sites
Shining One Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 Me: What would you like to do now? Her: Teach me how to drift. Best girl ever! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Michelle ma Belle Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 The only expectation I have is that the guy be a gentleman. Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 A walk after dinner is a lovely way to end a night,check out the constellations find a spot by the water to just drink in the night...who needs alcohol when you can feast on stars and the sounds of water with a color so inky it seems to be bottomless......it touches the heart of inspirational conversation when you look at stars....trees backdropped at night look completely different,they feel different...theres nothing like a walk at night with someone special...with a pause by the water....its almost perfection a dreamers paradise .ok geeky....but true...deb 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Myragal Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 I absolutely love holding hands while walking. On cloud nine. It can be a stroll in the sun, light rain, snow. A smart man chooses a restaurant, etc. where we can take a short stroll afterwards. It's so romantic to brush up against each other. I take his arm, he holds my hand...walk like this just chatting in our own magical world. Sigh! I love sex but my most tingly wonderful memory of a man is when we first hold hands and a very simple kiss goodnight. I get home and feel like some school girl in a movie wanting to break out in song. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
thecrucible Posted November 8, 2015 Share Posted November 8, 2015 If we get on, I like to go somewhere for an evening stroll afterwards. Something like that can be really romantic. But I don't like to stay out too long as I work full time. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
kevin smithy Posted November 9, 2015 Share Posted November 9, 2015 Thank you ladies .. have a great day got some nice ideas on this thread. Link to post Share on other sites
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