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Hello all! Only realised now its been almost a month since all this happened!

 

Anyhoo, i proceeded to block her numbers and we havent had ANY contact since.

 

Until today that is. Last night i received 3messages from a number i didnt know, didnt reply to any of them. This morning another 3.

 

"Ive been thinking about you alot lately".

Since ive been doing so well and im pretty much over everything. I replied. Long story short, she misses me and realised she made a mistake. So i pretty much gave her an ultimatum. Come and see me, so we can talk and take it from there, or dont message me with crap like that again.

 

She thinks im being rude and have moved on. Which is 100%correct. Im not pinning for her, im not sad about the breakup. So whatever she decides, works for me.

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Good response dude :)

 

All in or all out, there is no halfway house playing "friends" or whatever.

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Hello all! Only realised now its been almost a month since all this happened!

 

Anyhoo, i proceeded to block her numbers and we havent had ANY contact since.

 

Until today that is. Last night i received 3messages from a number i didnt know, didnt reply to any of them. This morning another 3.

 

"Ive been thinking about you alot lately".

Since ive been doing so well and im pretty much over everything. I replied. Long story short, she misses me and realised she made a mistake. So i pretty much gave her an ultimatum. Come and see me, so we can talk and take it from there, or dont message me with crap like that again.

 

She thinks im being rude and have moved on. Which is 100%correct. Im not pinning for her, im not sad about the breakup. So whatever she decides, works for me.

 

 

 

Well, I just want you to realize that she dumped you and moved onto someone else. Now if she thinks that she made a "mistake". Well, that's a mistake that she'll have to live with because you don't have to.

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Thats me being foolish enough to still care about her and her well being. 3years together, i will still care about her, even if we are not together. She and her family were good to me, so writing them off completely feels wrong. Even if it the very thing i should have done months ago

 

Best thing is to just let it go and move on. The longer you stay in contact with her the harder it will be to heal. I think she wanted to rub a bit of salt in the wound and the reason is she still thinks you want her back. Dirty pool in my opinion. Move on,heal and find someone else.

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