iseestars Posted November 7, 2015 Posted November 7, 2015 This girl and I had went out with some mutual friends and at the time I was not interested, throughout the night she kept calling me mr. blue coat even though I knew she knew my name. As tme went on I would see her periodically and she would always strike up a lil convo, or jump out from around the corner, and just playfully take a little jab at me. Like oh smoking again or what have you. I finally started to have feelings for her and this one time I seen her we locked eyes for a little while while walking, it was like minutes but it was like "eye chicken" and neither of really looked away, for some reason that moment I think is when I started really falling for her. Then it seemed the only time I would see here was when I would go to the place she works, and honestly I don't know here real well, but all of sudden it seemed she starting to get embarrassed when I was around, I would try and talk to her and she would get tongue tied. And I swear one time she was just looking down, but her face looked as if she was blushing. But it also seemed as if she was getting less friendly? I recently decided that I felt like I was going where she worked a lot so I switched places I would go or try and not go the day she worked. Sometimes this inevitable, but we would still meet eyes but neither of us would say much, I swear it seemed like she would treat me worse than other customers and what not. He friends periodically come into the place I work, but I don't think it is cause of her or anything like that. But the other day her and her friends sat down to eat and I have like never seen her come through. I was walking to the front of the store and once again we caught eyes and too me it just felt like time stopped, We held each others gaze longer than one does with other people, but I was the one that looked away. Her attitude towards me in the past was a lot friendlierbut now its kind of un friendly, but like i said she seems too get shy when I am around now, but I dont know, Sorry this is soo long.
Qboro90 Posted November 7, 2015 Posted November 7, 2015 Looks like it's the classic standoff between two shy individuals. Someone's gotta make a move... It's not gonna be the girl... So that leaves.... YOU. Be cautious about projecting your thoughts about what she may be feeling based on what you're feeling and how you interpret the looks she gives you or the body language she puts off. That can be misleading. Not saying she doesn't have a crush on you but you haven't said anything that's "ah ha" she's def checking me out. Best move? Walk into the place she works, strike up a convo. "Hey, I've been in here so many times and seen you around but I've never gotten your name... I'm ____ by the way" Boom- intro, non creepy, just friendly. See how she responds to that. Build a rapport from there. Definitely don't come flat out and say "I think you're cute, wanna grab lunch" ... Unless you have the swagger and confidence to make it sound suave.
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