mossycup Posted November 7, 2015 Posted November 7, 2015 I thought I would update this board. If you are curious about my story, you can look up past threads. Suffice it to say I had a TERRIBLE break up, six months ago this week. I wanted to share with everyone that I feel better than I ever have in my life now. I mean, not like perfectly happy every moment or anything, and I have some intense trust issues, but I feel happy to be myself and happy where my life is. Since the break up, I have done so many news things. I've made news friends, had a few dates, got in great shape, bought a new wardrobe and furniture. My friendships are more meaningful and fun and my confidence is up. My ex has never spoken to me and when I think of him I feel angry and sad, still, of course, but I just think about where I am now vs where I was at six months ago before we broke up and I have to say, I'm glad with how things turned out. I wish I didn't have to suffer so badly, but I am SO much mentally healthy and confident and happy than I was before. It's almost like a miracle. I'm sure I'll have down days again, but I just wanted to post this during a time when I am feeling really good. I want everyone out there coping with heartbreak to have faith. I was suffering so much and I worked and worked through it and I am coming through it and my life is richer and more confident than it ever has been. Yes, there are scars. I don't know what it will be like in my next relationship, how I will trust again. And I have a lot of anger inside. But, I'm managing all that and I do feel such a great love for myself and my friends. Just wanted to share. Life does get better. 2
makemineamac Posted November 7, 2015 Posted November 7, 2015 What great news and good on you! So happy to hear someone report back on their newfound happiness and success. Go you!
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