AIJ Posted November 7, 2015 Posted November 7, 2015 So I've been with my girlfriend for a few months now, everything has been superb, she seems completely in love with me, great sex and all the rest of it. However, the other night, we went out with a few friends. She got incredibly drunk and as we were waking home, she called me the wrong name. I let it slide just because she was incredibly drunk, and then a few minutes later she said 'I love you *not my name*'. She was calling me by the name of the last guy she was seeing. Obviously this really angered me, I took her home, put her to bed and didn't speak to her. We spoke about it in the morning and I just decided to forgive her but now I cannot stop thinking about it, it's driving me insane. Is this reason enough to break up with her or not?
OldRover Posted November 7, 2015 Posted November 7, 2015 So I've been with my girlfriend for a few months now, everything has been superb, she seems completely in love with me, great sex and all the rest of it. However, the other night, we went out with a few friends. She got incredibly drunk and as we were waking home, she called me the wrong name. I let it slide just because she was incredibly drunk, and then a few minutes later she said 'I love you *not my name*'. She was calling me by the name of the last guy she was seeing. Obviously this really angered me, I took her home, put her to bed and didn't speak to her. We spoke about it in the morning and I just decided to forgive her but now I cannot stop thinking about it, it's driving me insane. Is this reason enough to break up with her or not? Absolutely not, but could be a GOOD reason not to let her get drunk (or yourself for that matter). And two months, she is NOT in love with you and you are NOT in love with her... just way to fast, it just doesn't happen that way. However, you are found of each other and feeling the infatuation strongly... and this can lead to love. Heck, I called a girlfriend that I had been dating for over a year the wrong name once.... no, didn't go over well. Work things out, don't let the alcohol influence your life (THAT IS A REASON TO BREAK UP). She'll probably laugh and be embarrassed about it tomorrow, so laugh it off for now.
louxor Posted November 7, 2015 Posted November 7, 2015 Was she recently out of the last relationship with this other guy when you started going out? If so this may be a red flag. But for now I'd just talk to her about it and tell her how it made you feel, considering she did it twice, and then see what she says.
Meli22 Posted November 7, 2015 Posted November 7, 2015 I called an old ex the wrong name once! It was a genuine mistake. I had been in school (it was that long ago talking to a guy friend) then I met up with my ex and called him the same name. My ex was distraught and I felt awful but it was a genuine mistake! He forgave me for it and we were okay. But yeah, if you really like her then don't let this get in the way. Let her know how it made you feel, then just let it blow over.
mightycpa Posted November 7, 2015 Posted November 7, 2015 You can break up for any reason you want. The reason only has to be good enough for you, forget what other people think. They don't have to live in your shoes. The real questions for you are: can you live her mistake?can you live without her?
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