robthefool Posted November 6, 2015 Posted November 6, 2015 Hey guys So I'm in my final year of university. Last weekend, a friend of some mutual friends came up for the weekend and we all went out. Basically, I found her attractive as soon as I saw her, but didn't think it would come to anything.. I was wrong, I got quite drunk and so did she, we ended up making out at the club, all our friends were going 'aw that's cute' and then she came back to mine afterwards and the rest is pretty self explanatory. Normally I would think 'ah it was just another one night stand' but it felt like we had a bit of a connection.. she stayed until 1pm the next day (so she was in no rush to leave!) and I texted her later that day.. I've been texting her since, all the signs have been good. She asks me a lot of questions, laughs a lot and asks me about my day etc. She actually went to my university in her first year nefore changing to another one, so she knows the place and visits here a lot. So we have been texting quite a bit, I teasingly kept saying that she should come up again soon - and she is coming next weekend! It's been unbroken texting maybe 10each/day since last weekend, she hasn't left a conversation ender since then, until today. She is going back to see her family for the weekend, and she texted me at the end of her reply 'have a good weekend! xx' and she doesn't usually use x's. I replied and wished her the same. So now the texting has stopped, do you think she just wants a break from texting and is still interested? Should I message her on Monday and ask how her weekend was or wait for her to message me? Please don't ask me to call her/ etc because her and her group of friends are the type to text (post early 00's type that find calling OTT with a relatively new person) Thanks in advance!
xUnknown Posted November 6, 2015 Posted November 6, 2015 I'd text her Monday and ask how her weekend was with her family. Ask if she still plans on coming up to visit and mention we should "grab a bit to eat" (not the word "dinner") together. Try and work out some sort of "date" with her, but keep it casual.
Author robthefool Posted November 6, 2015 Author Posted November 6, 2015 I'd text her Monday and ask how her weekend was with her family. Ask if she still plans on coming up to visit and mention we should "grab a bit to eat" (not the word "dinner") together. Try and work out some sort of "date" with her, but keep it casual. Will do! Do you think she is just trying to test me, was trying to end the conversation, or is not interested? She has shown good signs up to now! I know that if I was in her situation and going home to see my family, I'd certainly text her much less frequently, but maybe I wouldn't end the conversation
Author robthefool Posted November 6, 2015 Author Posted November 6, 2015 Definitely drop a text or two! I will on Monday/Tuesday if I haven't heard from her by then!
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