Anabeth811 Posted November 5, 2015 Posted November 5, 2015 Okay, so this is my first relationship ever and I don't know what to do anymore. My boyfriend of almost six months called me on the phone and said that he was upset because he heard that I had been telling people he was a bad boyfriend. In my defense, I had said some things like that, but only to my close friends which I have every right to do. Anyway, he said he couldn't forgive me and he needed a break. We hadn't talked in four days, even though we go to high school together in a small school, and then I talked to him and he seemed very hostile and ignored me even more obviously the next day… I don't know what to do! should I call him or text him even though I think he will ignore me or just try to be cool about it? Also, does he even like me anymore?
Qboro90 Posted November 6, 2015 Posted November 6, 2015 Okay, so this is my first relationship ever and I don't know what to do anymore. My boyfriend of almost six months called me on the phone and said that he was upset because he heard that I had been telling people he was a bad boyfriend. In my defense, I had said some things like that, but only to my close friends which I have every right to do. Anyway, he said he couldn't forgive me and he needed a break. We hadn't talked in four days, even though we go to high school together in a small school, and then I talked to him and he seemed very hostile and ignored me even more obviously the next day… I don't know what to do! should I call him or text him even though I think he will ignore me or just try to be cool about it? Also, does he even like me anymore? Take it as a lesson that your relationship with your boyfriend is between you and him. Why would you bad mouth the person you're with behind their backs? Pretty sure that makes you a bad gf. Also... What kind of friends do you have where they went and told your BF what you said about him. Sounds like one of your friends stabbed you in the back and purposely told him. Either way, now you know, keep your personal thoughts and relationship to yourself and the person you're with. If you had concerns with your BF then guess who you should talk to? HIM!. 1
d0nnivain Posted November 6, 2015 Posted November 6, 2015 You have learned an important lesson, or at least you should have. You don't have "every right" to complain to your best friends (especially plural as in multiple people) about your BF. Saying unkind things about him which got back to him hurt his feelings. You also should have learned that somebody in your inner circle has a big mouth. That person should never have repeated what you said to anybody else. But people talk & because of that your BF got hurt. At this point, you need to deliver a heartfelt apology to him in person Do NOT text him. If he can't accept your apology, understand you did wrong. Vow not to do it with your next relationship & move on.
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