timmi Posted November 5, 2015 Posted November 5, 2015 She broke up with me 5 months ago. We were dating only 3 months. Out of blue, lost her feelings. Before NC i managed to get good terms with her. I let her know that i accept that we are no longer in relationship and we both are probably moved on. She then started dating with new guy. I don't know if that was her way to dealing with the pain, wanting to make me jealous or was she really moved on. Anyway.. I knew that i will only make things worse if i keep contacting her so i went to NC. I hope that this new guy is rebound but you never know. They have been spending time together for 6 weeks by now and maybe their honeymoon period is starting to end. Now after 30 day NC i contacted with my ex. She did not try to contact me while NC. Told her that we haven't talked lately and i wanted to know how she has been and what she has been up to. She answered saying that everything is good and nothing up much, same old - school, home, friends. She didn't mention anything that she is dating now. I asked her if we could meet? She said that she is busy this week because of exams coming next week, but we can think about it. Then she asked how i have been and stuff. I kept conversation short and ended it saying "Okey i'm not distracting you more right now. Will talk sometime". Few months after breakup i asked her to meet me several times and she basically gave same answer as now. But i was too impatient to wait her to contact me. Now I'm starting NC again. Before i felt bad because i felt that i should do something. Like contacting with her. That i did not let door open for her. But now the door is open. If she wants to meet me, she will contact. If not then her loss. Am i right on this one ? And what should i think if she finally wants to meet (probably not)? Does that mean she still have some feelings? I personally would not go to meet ex if i was a dumper.
PegNosePete Posted November 5, 2015 Posted November 5, 2015 Dude, you need to stop smacking your head against that brick wall. A 3 month relationship that ended 5 months ago. She isn't interested. Move on. If she contacts you again I would reply "who is this?" because her number will no longer be in your phone. 1
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