Those relationships where the guy keeps breaking up with you... toxic, right?

[walkingonair]

I've had experiences like this and now my friend is going through this. It's ridiculous!!!! They get back together everything goes great and then approximately after 3-4 months he breaks it off. They don't talk for 3 months and then get back together and the cycle keeps repeating!!!!! And he always makes excuses why it won't work this time and makes her feel as if she's to blame and finds faults when there aren't any and he breaks it off even though he has feelings for her and the relationship was going good!! Why is this happening? Should she just finally move on? Cause I feel like people like her guy have mental issues!!!!!

[lilmissjava]

It is up to your friend to want to end things for good if she feels it isn't.

 

The heart wants what it wants.

 

Like a junkie on smack.

[KatZee]

Yes, toxic.

 

On/off relationships never work out. She's wasting her time with this nonsense.

[walkingonair]

Yes, toxic.

 

On/off relationships never work out. She's wasting her time with this nonsense.

 

Ugh yeah. So toxic.

[ExpatInItaly]

Your friend is wasting her time. He has issues but I'd wager she does too, since she keeps going back for more.

[Buddhist]

Is this even a question? Yes she should move on unless she likes being broken up with. Her mistake was taking him back the first time. I never understand why people go back to exes. Just dont do it.