Sweetli Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 I honestly didn't know where to post this story. I met a coworker a couple of years ago and we became fast friends. We both had a strong attraction to each other but never did anything about it as we both were in relationships. My relationship at the time was rocky, and apparently so was his. So that's how the attraction happened but we remained friends. We found we had too much in common and i felt I could really open up to him. Back when we met (a month after) we kissed one time but that was it and it hasn't happened again. Things got better in my love life shortly after anf I worked on things with my man. I kept in touch with coworker but only platonically. I was married recently (3months ago) and he hasn't asked one question about it like how was your wedding, nothing. He proposed to his girlfriend the month of my wedding andI know things are going well in his relationship now and am happy for him. The thing is, as im living abroad and feel very lonely here, I often need his support at work especially because things have been tough for me with my boss and these past mths he's completely avoiding me. He never messages me anymore he hardly ever comes to visit, he writes me to ask if im mad (?) which im not! But when I respond i dont hear from him for another week. When i last saw him (3 wks ago). i said "where have you been!!" In a funny way and he was all "why? You've been missing too! Why?!!" Like hes very evasive, protective and touchy. Im just confused. How can i deal with this when all I need here is a friend?
Michelle ma Belle Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 Maybe he's not the best choice for a friend.
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