aboucher21 Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 Ok so I am 20 and a sophomore in college. There is this girl in my class who is beautiful and seems very nice. We have talked a few times, like walking back from class together. I also have her number and we say hi when pass each other. Ive tried texting her but she will reply a few times then stop. She has mentioned she is an awful texter so I dont really care about that but I am just wondering if I should just ask her out to dinner or is it too early? I really dont know how to spend more time with her without being on like a date. Any help is appreciated!
itsallamystery Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 get coffee. Whats nice about that is if you dorm you can literally just walk with her to the cafeteria after class. I'd play it from there. If things go smooth give her a call towards the weekend for something more officially a "date"
Zippy2000 Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 You remind me of myself when I was 20. I waited till tomorrow. Tomorrow would come and I would wait til near the weekend. The weekend came and I d say in a fortnight, then a month and then it was six months and then it was a year. Some girls I never managed to ask out. Some I waited so long they saw me only as a friend. They didnt know I had feeling for them and they went on to meet someone else. You have to ask yourself when do you feel comfortable. In fact I ll answer that for you. It will never come until you force yourself to ask. DO it now rather than later as the girl will only think youre just a friend. I was like you. I didnt know how to handle rejection back then. I m now 41. When I get rejected I chalk it up and still continue to be friends with them abd I act the way I am around them. If they change their minds then great but you need to ask her out now than waste time. I wasted a year or 2 years on the same girl when I was younger. Do it now than later.
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