Jesse101 Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 So I started a new job about a month ago and there is a girl there that I'm really into ( she's 18 and I'm 17). The problem is I can't tell if she's feeling me or not. Iv noticed that she quickly glances at me some times and our eyes lock then we both look away. This happens often. Iv also noticed when I come into work everyone usually says hi to me but her. Then I hear her say hi to everyone else or start a comversation with them. The only time we ever talk is when we need help on our job. The last thing I noticed was when me her and a friend were sitting at a table talking and she started playing her hair kind of which is never noticed her do. I'm not sure if I should take it as a sign because I wasn't talking to her directly. She was somewhat engaged in the conversation but just by laughing or commenting but she could of just been bored. Also if this helps she follows me on Instagram and always likes my posts. Selfies n' all. I know that doesn't matter but I'm puzzled by why she likes my posts. She's only known me for a month and we really never talk. Idk. But that's my problem some advice or thought would be greatly appreciated. Last time I took a shot at a girl with out really knowing she was into me or not it blew up right in my face. I just want to count my chickens before thay hatch
itsallamystery Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 wont know until you take that chance again... so what if it blows up in your face? Rejection isnt a bad thing.
miacat Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 Oh MAN this is classic. I used to play that same game when I had a crush on a guy in school or at work or wherever. Some days I would have enough courage to say hi and other days I couldn't even bare to look at him. She definitely thinks you're cute but is just nervous. Have you ever tried to start conversation with her? You should just be playful. Try to joke with her or at least whenever you see her force yourself to just say what's up. Just do it! If she sees that you're at ease and comfortable with yourself, she'll begin to feel at ease too.
Author Jesse101 Posted November 5, 2015 Author Posted November 5, 2015 Oh MAN this is classic. I used to play that same game when I had a crush on a guy in school or at work or wherever. Some days I would have enough courage to say hi and other days I couldn't even bare to look at him. She definitely thinks you're cute but is just nervous. Have you ever tried to start conversation with her? You should just be playful. Try to joke with her or at least whenever you see her force yourself to just say what's up. Just do it! If she sees that you're at ease and comfortable with yourself, she'll begin to feel at ease too. Iv had small talk with her, maybe a few words here and there. I did notice her get a little more comfortable talking but then the next day its like nothing ever happened. Same awkward silence. I would just take a shot but remember I have to work with her. I will never let it go if I were to be rejected. That's why I want to know if she is into me.
Author Jesse101 Posted November 7, 2015 Author Posted November 7, 2015 **UPDATE** So at work we were both put on a job to gather alone. we started talking and we bother got pretty comfortable talking to each other. then we and a few people went planed for a movie after work she told me she would let me know if anything changed with the plan and later she texted me the details. The next day we seen each other she actually said hi to me. But then I noticed things go back to normal and we barley talked and there was a weird energy that I felt when with her. I have no idea where to go from here. back to square one. I really want to get to her but I have no clue how to do it. If I knew how she felt it would be so much easier. this is some BS anyone else have a clue on what I should do. I am going crazy!!
LilaMarie Posted November 7, 2015 Posted November 7, 2015 What is so difficult about asking her straight out on a date? If you can't do it face-to-face because of work why can't you text her?
Author Jesse101 Posted November 7, 2015 Author Posted November 7, 2015 What is so difficult about asking her straight out on a date? If you can't do it face-to-face because of work why can't you text her? Its easier said than done. especially if your someone like me. I Cant stand being rejected especially if its by someone I work with. Everyday.
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