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How to Bring Up Friends with Benefits


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Kinda weird topic, cause usually friends with benefits just comes naturally after hanging out a bit and it doesn't really need to be brought up until you've both been banging and you tell each other what you want.

 

But I had been hanging out with and talking to this girl for a a couple months until she decided there was no spark. Stopped hanging out and talking and haven't talked for a week. But kinda want to bring up being **** buddies/friends with benefits since she's still very physically attracted, but just can't see a relationship with me. I feel like it weird to bring up, and she really really doesn't seem like the girl to do this. She's good girl type, one bf ever, virgin and no alcohol all throughout high school, doesn't sleep around, but thinking I'd try with how attracted she is to me physically

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If she is the good girl type, why ruin it ?

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If she is the good girl type, why ruin it ?

 

 

 

What would I be ruining

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So you want to play around with the good girl type ? Good luck with Karma

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Virgins flirt all the time with no intention of going all the way. Sort of like how married people flirt. They just like the attention and the rush and the idea of it and to keep somebody chasing the carrot. You're better to move on if she's been blunt with you and said there's no spark.

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Virgins flirt all the time with no intention of going all the way. Sort of like how married people flirt. They just like the attention and the rush and the idea of it and to keep somebody chasing the carrot. You're better to move on if she's been blunt with you and said there's no spark.

 

Well no she's not a virgin anymore, but yeah I don't see it happening. Sex for women is different than guys. Most women end up getting emotionally invested and attached

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If she is a relationship oriented person, don't waste her time or yours trying for a FWB. It is disrespectful and dishonest. Find someone who is looking for what you are looking for.

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