MR27 Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 Hi this is my first post, me and my girlfriend broke up like 2 weeks ago and tomorrow was supposed to be our 1 year anniversary, the only times we have talked she has been very aggressive towards me about the whole situation and blamed me for everything even though it was her who ended it without talking to me properly or letting me know how she was feeling, I'm trying to go with NC had been going fine but I feel like I'm going crazy on the inside and I'd just like to know what I should do if she was to text or try to get in touch with me ?
PegNosePete Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 You know what "NC" stands for? NO CONTACT I hope that answers your question
Author MR27 Posted November 4, 2015 Author Posted November 4, 2015 You know what "NC" stands for? NO CONTACT I hope that answers your question I know what it means , just hard trying to not text her and stuff and convince myself I'm doing the right thing and thank you
ExpatInItaly Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 You do nothing if she gets in touch. Stay No Contact, don't respond. Are you hoping she'll reach out on your anniversary?
Author MR27 Posted November 4, 2015 Author Posted November 4, 2015 You do nothing if she gets in touch. Stay No Contact, don't respond. Are you hoping she'll reach out on your anniversary? I'm not sure what I want right now I'm just still hurt by it all and trying to cope with it
Author MR27 Posted November 5, 2015 Author Posted November 5, 2015 Today I just feel like crying my heart out, today should of been a special day but instead it feels like one of the worst of my life, she hasn't text or called and neither have I, I woke up this morning and thought I should of been waking up to her and instead I was just alone, feel so depressed and missing her terribly
bmajor Posted November 5, 2015 Posted November 5, 2015 My anniversary is coming up and its been almost 3 weeks since the break. I initiated the break and i know exactly where you're at. You are not alone. It's a roller coaster... Just grip the handle bar in front and hang on tight. It will get better i promise. He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. Psalm 147:3
itisdanielle Posted November 5, 2015 Posted November 5, 2015 Today I just feel like crying my heart out, today should of been a special day but instead it feels like one of the worst of my life, she hasn't text or called and neither have I, I woke up this morning and thought I should of been waking up to her and instead I was just alone, feel so depressed and missing her terribly I know how you feel. Mine and my ex's anniversary was on Halloween, and I think I subconsciously hoped he would reach out because I felt so, so low when I woke up to no text messages the day after. Stay strong. If she had reached out, it would have set you back. Even though you want to hear from here it's better that she hasn't messaged as it would have given you false hope.
Author MR27 Posted November 5, 2015 Author Posted November 5, 2015 My anniversary is coming up and its been almost 3 weeks since the break. I initiated the break and i know exactly where you're at. You are not alone. It's a roller coaster... Just grip the handle bar in front and hang on tight. It will get better i promise. He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. Psalm 147:3 I will try just hard isn't it trying to stay on the right path
Author MR27 Posted November 5, 2015 Author Posted November 5, 2015 I know how you feel. Mine and my ex's anniversary was on Halloween, and I think I subconsciously hoped he would reach out because I felt so, so low when I woke up to no text messages the day after. Stay strong. If she had reached out, it would have set you back. Even though you want to hear from here it's better that she hasn't messaged as it would have given you false hope. Yeah I suppose your right it would have hurt me more if she had knowing that I couldn't be with her
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