kaisergal Posted November 3, 2015 Posted November 3, 2015 This shouldn't matter but it does!!! As people know ive been involved with quite an unsavoury guy his ex gf always said he never fancied me yet he has gone off with me a no of times there must be some kind of attraction if that was the case?? I don't see him out that often but times I do things happen
mystikmind2005 Posted November 3, 2015 Posted November 3, 2015 It doesn't cost anything to type a little bit more information?
Author kaisergal Posted November 4, 2015 Author Posted November 4, 2015 Ive been on off involved with a guy for 3 ish years now in a sexual relationship. He's never been most honest with me saying he was single on no of occasions and wasn't and has basically got me in a lot of trouble. His ex who is trying to get him back from another woman has always said he never fancied me but he's gone with me so many times am I to believe her. Surely there has to be some attraction
Author kaisergal Posted November 4, 2015 Author Posted November 4, 2015 Even if it was just sexual attraction surely wouldn't keep coming bk
ExpatInItaly Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 Sexual desire and convenience don't = a desire to take things further. It depends on the extent of your connection outside of sex. Did you go on dates? Three years is more than enough time for a guy to decide if he wants to pursue you for something more than sex.
Glitters Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 Sex buddies is just that, friends who fulfill a need for each other. You are a willing partner, I wouldnt advice you to look any deeper than that. Many guys decide a lot earlier in which status they see the girl.
Author kaisergal Posted November 4, 2015 Author Posted November 4, 2015 Sexual desire and convenience don't = a desire to take things further. It depends on the extent of your connection outside of sex. Did you go on dates? Three years is more than enough time for a guy to decide if he wants to pursue you for something more than sex. what i mean is that there has to be some form of attraction in general whether it is just that sexual attraction. He has a gf and a ex chasing him at the moment
PegNosePete Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 WTF. Why are you even giving this the slightest bit of thought? He is a liar and a cheat. Just never speak to him again, and move on. Who cares what he thinks? 1
Zippy2000 Posted November 5, 2015 Posted November 5, 2015 WTF. Why are you even giving this the slightest bit of thought? He is a liar and a cheat. Just never speak to him again, and move on. Who cares what he thinks? I totally agree with Pegnosepete. You are not option B. You are always available when things go wrong. Why would you even consider that. Dont you have any self respect? You need to think for the future and what you want. 1
katiegrl Posted November 5, 2015 Posted November 5, 2015 (edited) **what i mean is that there has to be some form of attraction in general whether it is just that sexual attraction. ** He has a gf and a ex chasing him at the moment Quote in asterisk -- no not necessarily. If a guy is horny enough, some guys are capable of having sex with a chick wearing a bag over her head. This is gonna sound harsh (and I'm sorry about that but feel you need to hear it) .... as long as she has a warm hole, that's good enough for him. So no. Move on. Edited November 5, 2015 by katiegrl 1
JasmineJones Posted November 5, 2015 Posted November 5, 2015 I've read that there are men who will even have intercourse with a loaf of bread or a cut of meat. [i'm not sure of the mechanics of how that works]. So a man being happy to use a woman for very casual sex does not indicate that necessarily finds her at all attractive.
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