walkingonair Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 Why would an insecure guy make a women feel unpretty and worthless when in reality every guy looks at the girl and wants her....
DrReplyInRhymes Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 Why would an insecure guy make a women feel unpretty and worthless when in reality every guy looks at the girl and wants her.... Call me insecure, call me an ass, call me worse than a smoker's cough, But I'd imagine its tempting to if she sucked all of your friends off.
Gaeta Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 Why would an insecure guy make a women feel unpretty and worthless when in reality every guy looks at the girl and wants her.... There are hundreds of books written on the why. It's what we call emotional abuse. The question you should be asking yourself is why do you date a man that puts you down. Here is some reading for you 30 Signs Of Emotional Abuse In A Relationship 4
Author walkingonair Posted November 4, 2015 Author Posted November 4, 2015 Call me insecure, call me an ass, call me worse than a smoker's cough, But I'd imagine its tempting to if she sucked all of your friends off. Well the women in this case didn't and would never do that. That's gross. Why do people think hooking up casually is OK? Sad world we live in....
DrReplyInRhymes Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 Well the women in this case didn't and would never do that. That's gross. Why do people think hooking up casually is OK? Sad world we live in.... That's one opinion. Another opinion is that it's disgusting to some people when they find the woman they've been dating for the past 2 months is actually seeing 4 other guys and sleeping with them all. But hey, 'exclusivity' wasn't discussed, right? Right?!
SammySammy Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 Because it's easier than fixing their own problems. It's easy to be mean and degrading in an attempt to pull someone else down rather than doing the work needed to get their acts together. 4
Redhead14 Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 Why would an insecure guy make a women feel unpretty and worthless when in reality every guy looks at the girl and wants her.... First of all, how do you know he's insecure? Secondly, if he's insecure he doesn't think highly of himself and will attempt to "keep" whomever he's with by making them feel they can't do better either. However, it doesn't matter whether he's insecure or just a jerk . . . if this is how he makes you feel, his opinion doesn't matter. 2
Glitters Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 Because thats the only way he will feel secure, temporarily. 2
StBreton Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 Call me insecure, call me an ass, call me worse than a smoker's cough, But I'd imagine its tempting to if she sucked all of your friends off. What an awful thing to say. Wow just wow and whatever Rhymes OP ... What this guy is doing is called "leveling" and sometimes if you call a person on this BS behavior they deny it ...and that's called "gaslighting" as if you are too sensitive to their comments or that their comments are even what you perceived ... In any case ... I would stay clear of the person as this behavior indicates emotional instability ... And it won't be getting any better till the person gets help. The cause is potentially insecurity but could be some sort of mental disorder ... Hard to say and I'm not privy to the person's overall behavioral dynamics. It just doesn't matter really ... Keep your distance or your self esteem will suffer. This person can only see themselves. B 2
Imported Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 Everybody does this, boys and girls. You workout and are in shape? Narcissist. You want to have $$$, so you educated yourself, worked for it and are now rich? You're a rich *******. You look attractive and present yourself well? If you're a girl....you're probably a slut. If you're a guy.....you're probably gay. You're a dude that gets every girl you want? You must be a jerk. The girls you get have issues. Because; Guy-I'm a nice guy and girls never like me because they only like jerks. Girl-Only damaged women go for guys like that, but you will never have me! It's sour-grapes. They're not going to achieve it, so instead of trying to achieve, they knock down the goal to their level......in their mind, because in reality.....it's still above them. 2
Got it Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 Everybody does this, boys and girls. You workout and are in shape? Narcissist. You want to have $$$, so you educated yourself, worked for it and are now rich? You're a rich *******. You look attractive and present yourself well? If you're a girl....you're probably a slut. If you're a guy.....you're probably gay. You're a dude that gets every girl you want? You must be a jerk. The girls you get have issues. Because; Guy-I'm a nice guy and girls never like me because they only like jerks. Girl-Only damaged women go for guys like that, but you will never have me! It's sour-grapes. They're not going to achieve it, so instead of trying to achieve, they knock down the goal to their level......in their mind, because in reality.....it's still above them. I wouldn't say everyone does this. 1
eye of the storm Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 I've had guys try the backhanded complements. I just laugh and tell them to run along and try it somewhere else. I assume they think if they knock my self esteem down and make me feel insecure that I will be easier to reel in. If a person is secure with themselves they won't feel the need to knock others down. If a person is secure with themselves, they won't get knocked down. 2
JasmineJones Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 Why would an insecure guy make a women feel unpretty and worthless when in reality every guy looks at the girl and wants her.... Because he is insecure and has no game and needs to break the woman down to feel on her level. 1
Siquijor Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 Because he is insecure and has no game and needs to break the woman down to feel on her level. Yup, basically because he's worthless himself. 1
Myragal Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 We all know these pathetic souls. I don't get angry with them as much as pity them. Somewhere they lost out in life. Home? The Playground? School? A lot of males have an immature edge but they let go of it after the teen years. A minority remain 'boys' all their lives. They seem doomed to never have a good relationship. They sabotage themselves by not having skills to deal with anger and frustration. All a bit sad. 1
mrldii Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 Why would an insecure guy make a women feel unpretty and worthless when in reality every guy looks at the girl and wants her.... Since everyone else has pretty much covered the first part of your question, I'll address the second part. At 55 years of age, I've yet to meet The Girl who, in reality, "every guy looks at...and wants..." Salma Hayek's the closest I've ever seen...only because she's the one-and-only woman who'd make me consider suiting up for the other team. Even then, I've known several men who've indicated they'd take her or leave her even if she showed up in a bikini with a boa wrapped around her neck...
Odinani Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 Since everyone else has pretty much covered the first part of your question, I'll address the second part. At 55 years of age, I've yet to meet The Girl who, in reality, "every guy looks at...and wants..." Salma Hayek's the closest I've ever seen...only because she's the one-and-only woman who'd make me consider suiting up for the other team. Even then, I've known several men who've indicated they'd take her or leave her even if she showed up in a bikini with a boa wrapped around her neck... It's obvious that what the OP means is that lots of guys are very attracted to this woman. OP can't possibly know what literally every man on the planet today wants or doesn't want. Neither can you. It's not going to be Salma Hayek anyway due to her advanced years.
mrldii Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 It's obvious that what the OP means is that lots of guys are very attracted to this woman. OP can't possibly know what literally every man on the planet today wants or doesn't want. Neither can you. It's not going to be Salma Hayek anyway due to her advanced years. It's not going to Salma Hayek or any other One Woman, regardless of advanced or neophyte years, as it's impossible for any One Woman to be all that and a bag of chips for every single single man on this planet. It's interesting that some people believe that it is possible, though. That would mean that there's some women out there who believe it just might be them.
Imported Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 (edited) It's not going to Salma Hayek or any other One Woman, regardless of advanced or neophyte years, as it's impossible for any One Woman to be all that and a bag of chips for every single single man on this planet. It's interesting that some people believe that it is possible, though. That would mean that there's some women out there who believe it just might be them. I think what does it for some guys and girls is also what is possible for them. Most people learn to like and appreciate what they can get as well as the other side of the coin for this. Your taste and preferences and how it was shaped probably involved some negativity along the way. Edited November 4, 2015 by Imported
xxoo Posted November 5, 2015 Posted November 5, 2015 It's basic middle school dynamics. Some people never mature. "I feel taller when I knock people down." 3
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