When did you realise that the 'love of your life' was crazy?

[siriusp]

Just wondering if anybody has had a date/dates (and how many) with someone that turned out to be crazy? How long did it take you to notice and what gave it away?

 

 

Did you feel relieved or frustrated when you realised that they weren't all there?

[Guyouthere]

Just wondering if anybody has had a date/dates (and how many) with someone that turned out to be crazy? How long did it take you to notice and what gave it away?

 

 

Did you feel relieved or frustrated when you realised that they weren't all there?

 

You know my story,,,, it took long time. No, I won't call her crazy, she is not.

 

I will answer it another way,,,,,

 

How long did it take to realize that something wasn't right?

 

It was the day after she went to a beach resort with 2 guys and a girl. We had exchanged texts and she "assumed" I had said she wanted sex with a guy (not the one she was with). Well, I get this… "thanks for everything you did for me, I will pay you back, etc.). I was "being blown off".

 

After all we went through, she is capable of that.

 

That told me she had some serious problems.

 

She backed off from that stance soon after.,,, but then did it again at the end of our last chats.

 

Her high ego wouldn't let her apologize for anything she did, or even comfort me when I told her how she had hurt my feelings at times with things.

 

It isn't her fault, she is a product of abuse.

 

But that should answer your question.

[BLND]

Ugh I know this topic a little too well. My only advice is to leave as soon as you start getting red flags. Don't stay in a situation that most likely will worsen and be dangerous for you.

[DrReplyInRhymes]

Defining crazy I think is the first step.

[JustGettingBy]

I realized the love of my life was crazy when I started to love myself. No dates needed.