WomenWubber Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 I'm not dateable at the moment so that would make me a zero. That's just me though. I suppose some women would think I'm a 10 and they would be almost right.
JustGettingBy Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 Note that these are only estimates: Looks: 8. I've been told I get more attention than most people, but don't realise it. This is ignoring that I have abs, given that almost nobody knows about that, besides people I've gone swimming with. Communication: 7. I'm clearer than 99% of people, but occasionally miss hints. Desirability: 3. Confidence is a slight issue but is being worked on. I live at home but am young enough for it to be mostly acceptable, have no serious relationship experience but have an over abundance of education and am clearly making moves to start a career (volunteering, applying lots) and fix the above problems. Also, I finally have my full driver's licence, which is actually only something half to two thirds of peers my age have that I know of. Personality: 8. People are astonished by how I manager to be one of the few to NOT burn a bridge when friend groups split up. I have friends of extremely various ages. Smarts: 7. I'm above average and can think for myself, but I'm nothing special.
Eighty_nine Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 looks, 7; intellect & communication, 8; success, 7; social life/travel/experience and adventurous nature a 10!
Ruby Slippers Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 Honestly, probably about a 6 overall right now. I broke up with someone 3 months ago, and I'm just barely starting to think about dating again. I need to drop about 10-15 pounds, I'm at a pretty big transition point with work, I'm kinda blah and basically just getting through what I have to do right now. I feel like I should be further along in life than I am - but maybe that's just something I'm telling myself because I'm kinda blah right now. So I don't quite have the right dating mojo yet. I'm sure if I met someone interesting, I'd perk up pretty fast. But it'll be a bit longer before I'm radiating "date me" energy. 1
Michelle ma Belle Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 I agree that this is really quite subjective but if I had to average it out I'd say I'm an 8 overall. I've done a lot of work on myself over the years and unpacked my baggage so I could become the best person possible for myself and for my partners. I'm always going to be a work in progress but I've come to really like myself, flaws and all, which has made me a genuinely happy, quietly confident and very peaceful person. Many people are attracted to this. 3
Grumpybutfun Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 Internet rating has turned everyone into a bunch of insecure, validation necessitating shallow idiots. Be good people, define your values and develop your character while bathing regularly and being fit and emotionally healthy. The rest is just asking for insecurities and roadblocks to finding compatibility and love. G 7
SincereOnlineGuy Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 I'm 0% dateable, because nothing on this planet could make me want to date right now. OMG - now what? (I am out of Phoe's loop - having just done a search when seeing one of your responses to an old thread)
ltjg45 Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 If I had to rate myself, I am around the 3 range. I am not ugly but I am not considered attractive. I have an avergse body weight, (around 170-180), no relationship experience whatsoever, have some debt, no college experience, quiet (where I prefer not to engage with people), very low income
lino Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 Internet rating has turned everyone into a bunch of insecure, validation necessitating shallow idiots. Be good people, define your values and develop your character while bathing regularly and being fit and emotionally healthy. The rest is just asking for insecurities and roadblocks to finding compatibility and love. G Well said. For me being dateable means simply being alive. Giving one's self a ratings number on dateability seems beyond silly. If one rates themselves as 0% dateable it means they know very well what is wrong.
ManyDissapoint Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 I have the looks but on the inside I'm a burnt wasteland. So obviously I'm a 10/10, would date again. 1
Charlie Harper Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 mmm,I suck online and on tinder, I am way too "nice" and very shy. Id say on an electronic median I am maybe a 4 or a 5. In real life, when I met women, or go for a quick coffee, id say I am a solid 9, its very weird and strange if there is no follow up, and usually I am not the one calling so I think I must do some things right. On the economic front, I am successful but not overworked, I have tim for myself and my friends, and I think that shows when I met someone If I tell them I am going to call or do something I DO. Id say a 7 maybe 7.5, I could do better? YES but I don't want to be a slave to work. I can't complain, I think its better this way.
GoodOnPaper Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 0 F**kable, but not dateable. I'm that guy women call when they have ... needs, but I'm not boyfriend or husband material. 0 For the opposite reason From where I sit, guys like you have a lot more personal power than guys like me. Anything resembling a ONS, FB, etc. would be a bucket list thing for me.
ZA Dater Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 Interesting thread. I'd rate myself a 1 purely because at near age 32 I haven't ever had a gf so that pretty much tells me a lot about how dateable I am. Me, I think I am about an 8 but society and experience has show me otherwise.
Author barbossa Posted November 4, 2015 Author Posted November 4, 2015 Subjective definitely I know my faults, I procrastinating , I can get mad quickly at times, I'm sure there are others Physically: I can lose another 20 pounds of fat. I'm skinny fat. No brad Pitt. But no gargoyles
loveweary11 Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 (edited) Dateable? At least a 9. At least. I can get started dating anyone I choose. Keeper? Hell naw. Probably a 2 in that respect. I don't want kids I like to travel and not sit in one place I don't like standard jobs/careers I'm a minimalist I like living off grid I apparently have fetish issues as discovered in another thread This isn't what most women want. I have am hunting for unicorns. I end up like the guy with the chess avatar. A hookup. the friend with benefits... or the guy that left town (why don't they just come with me??) Edited November 4, 2015 by loveweary11
mike_89 Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 Looks 9 (tall, broad, muscular, thick, curly hair and I take care to dress myself properly). My cognitive attributes are a lot more difficult. I am kind and gentle to people I like and to people I don't like but I am very up front and honest about things, and easily hurt those around me by being blunt, stubborn and impatient. Girls I dated long term gave me the impression that my personality is not as much pleasant as it is addictive. Guess I'd give my personality a 6: I can be really sweet, kind and caring but also a complete jerk.
PaperCrane Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 Personally I think a 7, reality is probably a 4. Looks: 5 at best probably. Formerly obese. Lost the weight but no amount of diet or exercise will fix the skin. Plus I'm kinda hairy. It's a light red kind of hair but every girl I've ever liked or been with has always told me they find body hair repulsive. So I just rub my chest on them until they either acclimate or run screaming Personality: 9. I'm often told I'm the life of the party if I go to one. People find themselves drawn to just talk to me. I highly enjoy making people laugh and just being around people I find enjoyable. Career: 7.5. A little more growth to do but I can afford my new car, my apartment, going out and also traveling. I'm comfortable and can afford taking someone out on nice dates as well. Thirst for adventure/fun/experiences: 10. This is where I get a lot of pleasure out of life. I'll break it down into the baseline average of ((looks + personality + success)/3) = ~7.1 I've been single for 2 years. Dated in between a little. Contracted a serious case of oneitis. The details of which is so that I could probably turn into a novel and make millions. Kicked that to the curb and simply just finding it very hard to even go on dates. The pool of available women where I live is atrocious.
introverted1 Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 Such a weird thread. Do people really think of themselves in these terms? I only date people who are 10's to me, and make me feel like a 10 in return.
Author barbossa Posted November 4, 2015 Author Posted November 4, 2015 Such a weird thread. Do people really think of themselves in these terms? I only date people who are 10's to me, and make me feel like a 10 in return. I am sure other people think of others in this way I know loads and loads of girls who are 7.5-8.5 physically personality: like a 4 ( mean, stuck up, beechee, likes to argue package: different values, family stuff, mood swings, parties too much i can't put up with that dating wise, makes them undateable 1
Author barbossa Posted November 4, 2015 Author Posted November 4, 2015 Such a weird thread. Do people really think of themselves in these terms? I only date people who are 10's to me, and make me feel like a 10 in return. No one is a 10, that suggests perfection, no flaws. 8 or 9 maybe. tolerable. ok but 10 is just narcissistic and unrealistic
mike_89 Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 I am sure other people think of others in this way I know loads and loads of girls who are 7.5-8.5 physically personality: like a 4 ( mean, stuck up, beechee, likes to argue package: different values, family stuff, mood swings, parties too much i can't put up with that dating wise, makes them undateable This is so very true in my experience. It seems like girls (probably guys too but since I have no experience dating guys...) have an inverse relation between their personality and their looks. The prettiest girls I have dated were also the most manipulative and underhanded girls, while less pretty girls seemed to be more hard working and trustworthy. Just my experience though, maybe I have missed out on the beauties that do have great personalities.
MightyPen Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 Hmmm...well I'm not dateable because I am married, but if I was single.. Looks - 5 - Decent shape, full head of hair, still youngish face, good butt (so I'm told). Not someone who is attention-getting though, and not super masculine (i.e. not hairy, no strong jawline, etc). Personality - 7 - I'm well read, somewhat amusing, quick on my feet, and enjoy deep talks and bonding with people. The atheist thing may be a dealbreaker to some and I can be selfish at times. Lifestyle - 8 - I make good money. I'm well educated. I like to travel. I'm drug and disease free. No addictions and little baggage.
Shepp Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 9 (Knocking a point off of course to show how humble I am) :p 6
Shepp Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 No one is a 10, that suggests perfection, no flaws. 8 or 9 maybe. tolerable. ok but 10 is just narcissistic and unrealistic Or that you found someone who loves your imperfections. Ratings are screwed cause your always looking through your own eyes! I knew a lad who people said was better looking when you got to know him - course his face never changed, he was just hilarious, and friendly & a good guy to be around!
introverted1 Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 No one is a 10, that suggests perfection, no flaws. 8 or 9 maybe. tolerable. ok but 10 is just narcissistic and unrealistic I said I dated people who are 10's to me and who make me feel the same. That doesn't mean that on your scale they or I are 10's. It's silly to think we would all agree on what makes someone a 10 or a 1 or any number in between. Almost as silly as me thinking I can objectively assign a number to myself. I am far too nuanced. And even though no one is perfect, someone can be perfect for me, and that's all that matters to me. 1
Recommended Posts