vash16 Posted November 3, 2015 Posted November 3, 2015 I was in a relationship with a man for almost a year and a half now that I look back it was relationship from hell. It started on line he was very funny, good-looking and most of all he came across as a very sensitive and caring man . His Facebook was full of giving to the needy helping women to get better pay increasing the minimum wage you name it all the things that makes you believe that he is the kindest person I was so excited to meet him in person he was tall, handsome,funny,witty, had a boyish charm to him and appeared to be affectionate. we started dating he was calling, texting regularly after every time we were together he was telling me I was so much fun and he always looks forward to seeing me but he was distancing himself and due to the nature of his job he was an artist he doesn't have enough money for our dates and he was telling me he gets very little pay for his work he will be in the poor house if it wasn't the support he gets from variety of people I forgot to mention that he is 58 years old he also told me he owes eighty six thousand dollars child back support I was feeling so sorry for him I am a registered nurse with a good position in the hospital and six figure income so I started buying his art work, paying for the dates and even buying him new clothes he was very grateful and told me he doesn't deserve all this kindness. At one point he told me he can't see me like he is breaking up but he back peddled and said let's not see each other for 3 weeks but he was in contact with me the whole time. I was a nervous wreck crying constantly that was out of my character. One day a friend of mine told me he has met this guy on line that he looks like a movie star and he is so funny it turned out that it was the same guy I was dating the artist I was furious called him and he was very matter of fact telling me he likes talking to women but he blocked my friend and told me he is not going to date her.I wanted to breakup with him so bad but I was paralyzed I was acting like a drug addict and he was my drug every time I was getting cold he will be charming and flirtatious. He told me last Feb that he is very busy and can see me only twice a month I was fine with that meanwhile I am the one spending and when we are together he was kind and affectionate. He was highly sexual high testosterone. Finally one day when we were together he was not able to perform he told me he is not feeling well and lets try next week,following week the same happened I asked him how many women are you seeing after lying few times he finally confessed that he has been with several women that they didn't worked out but now he has found this woman last month that he is very excited about then he started telling me about the sex he is having with her etc I thanked him for being honest for a change he still wanted to see me in two weeks but at that point I had it I text him and asked him if he has no feelings for me lets break up he said why you are rushing to the end. Before I see him in couple of days I called him and asked him the same question he apologized for his behavior but he called me two hours later and told me we should stop seeing each other but we can be friends but no more intimacy I can only take him out and can only kiss him the nerve of this man I didn't get mad just said goodbye and that was six months ago. I don't know why I have such a hard time forgetting him despite the fact that he abused and tormented me for over a year please help.
loveiswar101 Posted November 3, 2015 Posted November 3, 2015 Wow. How can you not forget him. I have never wrote this before but he seems he's a totally loser, user and most of all not for you. Never ever have contact with this guy again. Put it down to just a bad egg, move on. Keep yourself busy, go meet a nice guy and héll will soon be forgotten.
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