Summer20 Posted November 3, 2015 Posted November 3, 2015 Hello to everybody, my boyfriend and i have been in a long distance relationship for over more than a year. The relationship started really good, he as kind, he cared about me, he was really loving… but with the time those things have been disappearing. He told me he behaves this way because of the distance, because im not with him and he got used to it. Every time we met he is really excited and happy and he or I have to go back he can’t stop crying, he gets pretty sad. I have to say that he really likes playing in his pc, and if he loses he gets rly angry. So last night, after dinner i wrote him a message asking what was he doing and he didnt reply me so i thought he had lost and he was angry, i was right. He told me to leave him alone, so i did. After some time he told me not to write him tomorrow, that if he wanted to talk to me we would do it, i asked him why and he told me to shut the f up. That made me really sad i was crying for a while. It isnt the first time. Later he wrote me “why the hell girls can’t the stfu when i ask it?; why can’t you leave me alone when i ask it?; what is not so hard in not asking back and just leave alone?” Being honest im getting tired of this relationship, im the only one that fight for it, at least that is what i see. He has called me stupid several times too, he told me “i hate people with lower iq than me”. I hope you can help me guys
mike_89 Posted November 3, 2015 Posted November 3, 2015 IF this is the whole story and you have not omitted any other information, then dump this guy. He is not worth is, can not control his emotions or anger and apparently gets aggressive with you for something you weren't even involved in. However, it seems highly unlikely to me that this is the whole story. I can't really imagine anyone acting like that if there are no other reasons for this behaviour. This sounds like the reaction of someone who has been nagged at for extended periods of time, is this true?
Grumpybutfun Posted November 3, 2015 Posted November 3, 2015 He is a terrible person with anger issues. Why are you even giving him any of your time and attention? He doesn't deserve to be around humans, let alone deserving of a gf. He is immature and not living in the real world. You can do better. Move on, Grumps
Grumpybutfun Posted November 3, 2015 Posted November 3, 2015 IF this is the whole story and you have not omitted any other information, then dump this guy. He is not worth is, can not control his emotions or anger and apparently gets aggressive with you for something you weren't even involved in. However, it seems highly unlikely to me that this is the whole story. I can't really imagine anyone acting like that if there are no other reasons for this behaviour. This sounds like the reaction of someone who has been nagged at for extended periods of time, is this true? Nagging deserves a break up, not verbal abuse. He is short tempered due to living in aggressive/adrenaline game mode....she needs to bounce regardless of her attentions... G 2
d0nnivain Posted November 3, 2015 Posted November 3, 2015 Your BF is verbally abusive & has major anger management issues. Proceed at your own risk. Eventually his nasty words will be accompanied by his fists. Personally I'd get out now before he physically hurts you. This much anger over a video game is incredibly unhealthy & dangerous.
Art_Critic Posted November 3, 2015 Posted November 3, 2015 He is a terrible person with anger issues. Why are you even giving him any of your time and attention? He doesn't deserve to be around humans, let alone deserving of a gf. He is immature and not living in the real world. You can do better. Move on, Grumps Quoted for truth... I would give him what he was looking for and add on that you never speak to him ever again.
TexasMan68 Posted November 3, 2015 Posted November 3, 2015 If your house was on fire would you stay inside to see what was going to happen? If you answer yes then you might be one of those stupid people he is referring to. If you answered no then your not stupid and you'll quickly throw this P.O.S to the curb and regain the dignity and self respect you lost by staying with him this long.
GorillaTheater Posted November 3, 2015 Posted November 3, 2015 Never ever accept anyone speaking to you like this. Cut this a-hole out of your life, ASAP.
Michelle ma Belle Posted November 3, 2015 Posted November 3, 2015 I have nothing more to add apart from reminding you that you deserve better. Move on.
SammySammy Posted November 3, 2015 Posted November 3, 2015 We teach people how to treat us by what we accept, allow or ignore. I draw a line in the sand at any form of abuse. I refuse to accept or tolerate any abuse. I have no problem getting rid of a person that mistreats me. Quickly. In life, it's interesting how we tend to get what we expect. What we allow. Sometimes, if we want better, we have to raise our standards. 4
Ryan_XD Posted November 3, 2015 Posted November 3, 2015 Get rid of this moron, if he can't handle loosing on a computer game and has to take it out on you, he has some serious growing up to do!
DrReplyInRhymes Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 Still trying? You can do better than that guys.
preraph Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 Your bf has just admitted to a pattern of abuse. Seriously, you can do better.
Ms. Faust Posted November 4, 2015 Posted November 4, 2015 God, no! NO! It would have ended the moment he called me stupid.
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