Trip back home ended my 4 year relationship. You will feel lucky after reading my woe

[northbend]

This past summer my gf of 4 years went back home to India . she finally told her family about us ( I'm also Indian)

 

Her texts soon became less frequent, and I sensed more distance. I figured she was just busy on her vacation.

 

When she came back she didn't jump into my arms as

As she normally does. I kinda felt I knew what she wanted to say. She said her parents didn't think I was right for her and that we should break up . I've never met the parents, never given a chance to meet them. I was always a secret . my gf always believe her parents would dislike me. neither of I or her family belong to any religious beliefs. She said her parents just want her to end things with me. Period . FYI my family and friends love her.

 

We have had relations since that day but it felt forced, I felt like I was kissing a doll .

 

We used to text all day everyday. Now I look at my phone and nothing from her.

 

This morning I texted her that I love her

15 hours later still no response . I'm sure she's seen it. She just doesn't care to respond. By now I feel utterly pathetic to keep asking to be loved back.

 

No more cuddling, no more romance , the worst is she doesn't respect me even to message me. And she's 25 and her parents control her future

[Ashurii]

I'm sorry, north, and that sounds terrible. Personally I find it absurd when an adult lets their parents control them, especially in regards to their love life. Four years is a very long time, and it sounds like she isn't even considering your feelings in the matter.