Timshel Posted January 30, 2017 Posted January 30, 2017 (edited) I see....if she really does not want to discuss it further now, I'd say best to back off of it. Only this....let her know that when she's ready, if she would like to tell you more so that you are able to better understand her needs, as her partner and that you would be honored to share that with her when she's ready. {run on sentence, lol} Then I'd say drop it, for a while. How does that sound MrDuck? Best to both of you. Wanted to add, how do you think she'd feel about talking with a therapist? Do you think she'd be open to that? Edited January 30, 2017 by Timshel 1
Author MrDuck Posted January 31, 2017 Author Posted January 31, 2017 I see....if she really does not want to discuss it I see....if she really does not want to discuss it further now, I'd say best to back off of it. Only this....let her know that when she's ready, if she would like to tell you more so that you are able to better understand her needs, as her partner and that you would be honored to share that with her when she's ready. {run on sentence, lol} Then I'd say drop it, for a while. How does that sound MrDuck? Best to both of you. Yeah yeah I hear you! I might just have a quick chat with her along those lines, like no need to tell me anything but she always can type stuff, although she should know that by now haha! I basically have backed off the subject, I just wanted to make sure that that wasnt a d@uche move, because its not a question of me not caring. Wanted to add, how do you think she'd feel about talking with a therapist? Do you think she'd be open to that? Honestly? No ...I don't think she would, I fact I know, I know how she feels about that kinda thing. I do a lot of yoga, I love it, and within that I do some meditation here and there, I always suggest to her she should do it when shes stressed, but she thinks its all a massive waste of time
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted January 31, 2017 Posted January 31, 2017 OP if you've been together 5 months you should be able to talk to her. 5 months is a long time for no sex, especially from a 21 year old. Unless she's saving herself for marriage or something.
Author MrDuck Posted February 2, 2017 Author Posted February 2, 2017 OP if you've been together 5 months you should be able to talk to her. 5 months is a long time for no sex, especially from a 21 year old. Unless she's saving herself for marriage or something. Well we've been together a lot longer than 5 months now! I don't know why but all my threads just merged together... Although i guess, if nothing else, the knew information does go someway to explaining why she wanted to wait that long in the beginning.
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